Patricia Ann Heskes, a devoted educator, tireless caregiver, and world traveler, passed away peacefully on March 14, 2026. Born on September 21, 1946, to the late Ray and Lorraine Heskes. Pat lived a life defined by her love and service to others.
Pat was a proud alumna of the University of Missouri, where she earned her undergraduate degree, and Washington University in St. Louis, where she received her Masters of Education.
She dedicated 34 years to shaping young minds as a beloved fourth and fifth-grade teacher in the Parkway School District from 1968 until her retirement in 2002. Her classroom was a place of growth, curiosity, and kindness—values she lived out every day.
A woman of deep faith and a constant caregiver to her entire family, Pat’s spirit of generosity extended far into her community. She was a familiar face at St. Catherine Laboure Church, where she spent her time: Volunteering for Vacation Bible School, Assisting at the parish food pantry, and Supporting the missions of the St. Vincent de Paul charities.
Whether she was at home or abroad, Pat found beauty in the world around her. In her quieter moments, she was often found knitting, bird watching, or conquering a difficult crossword puzzle with a book nearby.
In her younger years, Door County, Wisconsin, held a special place in her heart. She spent her later years passing on her love for the peninsula’s charm to her friends and family, ensuring the tradition lived on. After retirement, Pat’s love of travel took her across the globe, including:
- The South Pacific & Oceania: Fiji, Australia, and New Zealand.
- Europe: Extensive travels through England, Scotland, and Wales.
- The Americas: Canada, the Caribbean, and various cruises.
- Annual Traditions: Treasured trips to Naples, Florida with the Powell family.
Pat’s legacy is carried on by her dear cousin, Jean Mueller, and Jean’s children: Jim, Jennifer, and John Mueller. She was a cherished figure in the lives of her goddaughter, Katie Moses, Katie’s husband Matt, and their daughters, Mabel and Evelyn. Pat is also survived by her “chosen family,” Beverly, John Sr., and John Jr., along with a wide circle of neighbors, colleagues, and friends.
Pat touched thousands, and her warmth will be deeply missed by all who knew her.