passed away on Wednesday, January 28, 2026.
Loving son of the late Marvin and Anne Toothaker (nee Hudson); beloved companion of Pamela Tiepelman of 7 years and her daughter and grandchildren; dearest brother of Carmen Lindsey, Gregory, the late Valerie and Gail Toothaker; dear uncle of the late Rebecca Mcallister; our dear friend of many.
Ricci worked for MICDS for 30 years. He was an avid outdoorsman and enjoyed hunting, hiking and fishing. Ricci was a fierce competitor of games and didn’t like to lose.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contribution may be given to the American Heart Association, PO BOX 840692, Dallas, TX 75284-0692 and/or National Kidney Foundation, 1001 Craig Rd. Suite 480, St. Louis, MO 63146
Visitation Saturday, January 31, 1:00 – 5:00 p.m. at KUTIS AFFTON CHAPEL, 10151 Gravois Rd.
So very sorry for Ricci’s loss, prayers of comfort for the family
Rick will be missed by many. He was great at pitching horseshoes, and throwing darts and washers. He loved fishing, hiking and mushroom hunting. Rick had a great sense of humor and good at poking fun at me. He had me laughing a lot. My hugs and prayers are with Pam, Greg, Carmen and his friends. God bless you all with comfort and peace.
Dear Greg and extended family,
We are sorry to hear of the loss of your brother, Ricci. May the sweet memories of your many years of brotherhood sustain you along with the peace of knowing he is now in the loving hands of our Lord.
Blessings to all,
The McIntyre family
The most that can be said of any man upon his passing, is that he was a good man. Ricci was that and a lot more. He will be truly missed by so many people, myself included.
So Sorry to hear about his passing, sending heartfelt hugs and Prayers. It’s hard losing someone you love ❤️
Ricci was truly one of the most kindhearted friends I’ve ever known. My heart goes out to his family and friends. Sending prayers love and hugs.
This is a great loss for many. Great man, great friend, he will be missed for sure.
My heart is broken.
It was a pleasure knowing and having him as a friend. A man with a kind and big heart who would help anyone. He is going to be missed dearly. Prayers to Pam, family and friends.
Mark Sweeney,
I worked with Ricci for about 25 or so years he was a great guy and an even better friend. He will be greatly missed!
Ricci was a rare soul. Was always ready to help solve any problem. Never saw the man treat anyone with anything but care. Never even saw him get angry when he had every right to. The world is a smaller place with him gone. God bless his family.
Ricci was kindness and generosity personified. He brought a smile and a genuine desire to help to every situation. What a wonderful man! He definitely made the world a better place.
So sorry Ricci will be missed for sure. Prayers to all
Matt, Ricci was a great wonderful guy, always willing to help you with anything, a true friend,hearing of him passing made today one of my worst days. The only thing that makes me feel better is knowing Ricci is up in heaven with the Lord.,!!
The world has lost a kind and generous person. I enjoyed being his colleague for many years. My prayers to his friends and family.
Ricci was a great person. I worked with him for nearly twenty years at MICDS. I will miss him forever.
Ricci. , a soul taken to early. We may never know why., but the time you had with anyone of us were adventurous, caring, competitive, helpful, kind, full of talks and laughs. You were very loving and we knew you loved our Friend Pam. Rest in peace til we meet again ♡
Carmen and Greg,
We were so sorry to hear of Ricci’s passing! We didn’t see your family often but I have great memories of the times we were together growing up. Richard and I are so thankful to have spent time with all of you at Uncle Marvin’s funeral! I am sorry we are out of state and can’t come to visitation. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you peace and comfort and fill that hole in your heart with precious memories. We love you!
Very sad to hear of the news! He was a good friend and co worker, worked with him 10 + years. Very kind and loving man, gone too soon!