Monday July 28, 2025,
Beloved father of Ava Miller; loving son of Linde Boston and the late Michael Alderfer; dear brother of Dominic Alderfer; dear grandson of Kathleen and the late Edward McMullen and the late John and Charlene Alderfer; dear nephew, cousin and friend to many.
Services: Private services will be held. Memorials to the National Mental Health Alliance https://www.nami.org/ appreciated.
Linde, I think of you now and then wondering how you’re doing.
Sending love and prayers for the loss of your son Anthony
Life has many struggles and some struggles lead us to painful times like this.
Peace be with you and your loved ones. 🙏✝️
thank you for the kind words
Anthony was a gentle soul, with a bright smile, and a good heart. He was taken from this world too soon, but he is now at peace. My thoughts and prayers are with Linde and her family.
thank you kelly for all you had done. i appreciate the kindness you always shown
I just saw this because mom and I were wondering how everyone was, I am SO sorry Linde, my heart hurts for you.
😪 Thank you Helen
I remember your mom always telling me of a dream she had of me marrying in a certain dress. It’s so funny. I still have that dress however I have never married.
Thank you so much 😪
I met Tony, I think I was 16 or 17. He was a beautiful soul, and beautiful smile. He was a happy soul, and always lit the room when I would see him. It might have been the crush I had on him, but either way, I knew he was special. Maybe not to everyone, but he was to me. My teens, I went through some dark times, and even though we weren’t the greatest children our parents could ask for, we did what we did to grow, learn, and cope with our surroundings. I’ll never forget the way he used to walk in his shoes, as to not crease them (he was all about his shoes) and I loved him for that because I was the same way. No, I didn’t use to walk funny to not crease them but that’s something I’ll never forget asking him about.
Tony meant a lot to me, I can’t speak for anyone else, and I’m sorry I didn’t know of his passing until recently. I’m sorry I missed his funeral, and most of his life after we were teens. We had a slight falling out, and I think both of us never looked further into the WHY. I do want to say to his parents, that you raised an incredibly gifted young man, and a genuinely nice man (don’t make him mad though). I loved the fire in him, and the angel he could be. My condolences and I’m sorry I missed out on watching him grow into what I know is a fine young gentleman