Mon., Sept. 16, 2019, at age 99. Beloved husband of the late Dorothy C. Bainter (nee Huber); dear father of Robert and Barry (Jane) Bainter; dear grandfather of Tim (Susan Harvey) and Jeffrey Bainter, Tracey (Anand) Sridharan and Corey Bainter; dear great-grandfather of Kevin Bainter and Anya Sridharan; dear friend of Dennis and Christy Michael. Ray was adventurous, charming, loving and loyal. He always had a mischievous twinkle in his eye and an unbelievable story to tell. He taught us all to embrace life fully, take risks, and cherish the people we love. Private family services were held at Resurrection Cemetery. Kutis Affton service.