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In Loving Memory

Carmen Aiello (Nee Schaeffer)

March 16, 1934 - December 4, 2023

Born March 16 1934, of St Louis MO passed away peacefully on Monday, December 4 2023.

Beloved wife of the late Christopher Aiello. Dear mother of Catherine (Leonard) Munier, Peter (Lilly) Aiello and Anthony (Connie) Aiello. Beloved Grandmother of Christopher and Donna Munier, Matthew and Michael Aiello and Anthony Aiello JR. Dearest sister of Donna Hurston. Aunt, cousin, and friend.

Services: Visitation at Kutis Affton chapel. 10151 Gravois Rd from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm on Thursday December 14.  Interment to follow at Jefferson Barracks Cemetery.


3 thoughts on “Carmen Aiello (Nee Schaeffer)”

  1. My parents were friends with her sister, Donna, and felt like a part of the Schaeffer family. Carmen was so sweet to me and my siblings when we would visit. She held a special place in my childhood.

  2. Carmen had an infectious smile! I worked with her at the City of St. Louis. She was so well respected! When I first got there in 1990, I was thinking, who is this lady that everybody is always bringing her stuff, joking around, while she playfully swats them away? People were Always coming to her for help when there were 5 other staff there that could help. I soon found out. That’s Carmen! Rest in Peace My Friend!


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