Kathy Casso, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend to so many passed away peacefully surrounded by family on September 27, 2026.
Born on January 18, 1953, Kathy was the oldest child to the late Donald and the late Ann Miller. Throughout her life she was known for her kindness and generosity, but the thing that stands out most is the genuine love she showed to those around her.
Kathy shared 52 wonderful years of marriage with her devoted husband, Frank Casso III. Together they built a life full of laughter, overflowing with love and support for each other. She was a devoted mother to Laurie (Jeff) Howard, Stacey (Michael) Starck, Kevin (Katie) Casso, and Alicia (Brock) Woods. Being a grandmother to her eight grandchildren, Camron Casso, Anthony, Samantha and Sophia Starck, Mason, Kylie and Addison Casso and Kinslee Woods brought her immense pride and immeasurable joy.
Kathy touched so many lives beyond those of her family. She was a sister, sister-in-law, niece, cousin, aunt, godmother and friend. Kathy had a special gift for making people feel welcomed, important and cared about. She gave selflessly, fought courageously and loved deeply. She touched every person she met in a unique way that no one else could. She was always there to lend a hand, listen, console and bring delicious baked goods or a homemade craft to make you feel special. Kathy will be deeply missed by so many.
Services: Visitation will be held at Sacred Heart Catholic Church, 17 Ann Ave, Valley Park, MO, 63088, Monday, October 5, 2026 from 9:00 a.m. until the time of the funeral mass at 10:00 a.m. Interment will follow at Resurrection Cemetery concluding with a Celebration of Life for all family and friends. Those unable to attend the morning services are warmly invited to the Celebration of Life, as Kathy would want you to attend.
In lieu of flowers the family requests contributions be made to the Siteman Cancer Center, MSC 1082-414-2555, 1 Brookings Drive., St. Louis, MO 63130 or online at www.siteman.wustl.edu/tribute. Please indicate the gift is in memory of Kathy Casso by writing a memo on your check.
To my friend. I will miss our time together talking about our children and remembering the good times we had!! You were the best! I love you with all my heart! Enjoy heaven and don’t forget to make butterflies. Everyone in heaven will be happy to have one.🦋🦋🦋🦋
Hi my name is Kathy (Puff) Speckart. I was Linda’s Wiesehan’s best friend in grade school. We lived in the same subdivision Blueberry Hills. I knew your mother in the early years of my life. She was kind, sweet, shy, reserved and respectful back then. I want to tell youI am amazed by all that the time and love you shared going through all this the last 2 years has been has been incredible and so selfless. I know she appreciated all the love and time you spent with her on this last journey in her life. I pray that you all have strength and can feel the love around you in the days ahead. I know she is in God’s arms now and will be your angel watching from above. I will join you at the Mass and in prayers. God bless you all❤️Love, Kathy
To the entire family, I wish to extend my condolences. Times like this are never easy.
We are very sorry to hear this. Our interactions with Kathy were limited to soccer and basketball games, she was always very kind. Our condolences to the family.
Be it in the classroom, helping, or on the sidelines, cheering on our children, Kathy always brought a smile and lively conversation! She was a generous, kind, and thoughtful soul. Grateful for our faith in knowing that we will all be together with our loved ones in our Heavenly Home. Godspeed, Kathy, many Holy Ones are anxiously awaiting your arrival with arms wide open. Our deepest condolences, and prayers, Mary and Dan McGovern and family