Thomas J. Fuller IV, 70; a retired Air Force Veteran and electronics engineer for Washington University & BJC passed away at home Friday morning (Sept. 26, 2025). He was a man who could make you laugh even on your worst day. Known for his razor-sharp wit and sense of humor, Thomas had a gift for turning ordinary moments into unforgettable stories. If there was a joke to be made, he would find it—often leaving everyone around him laughing.
His humor wasn’t just about being funny—it was about connection. He had a way of making people feel seen, easing heavy moments with just the right words, and reminding everyone that life, no matter how hard, always had room for laughter. Behind every laugh he gave was a heart full of kindness and love.
He cared for his family, and friends that were like family that were always there to help when needed.
He leaves behind his four children, Thomas J Fuller V, Nicholas S Fuller, Anna (Ryan) Wilmes, Angela (Brian) Bush. 9 Grandchildren, Caylin Fuller, Trinity Fuller, Kalvin Fuller, Chase Fuller, Mia Fuller, Brian Bush, Mason Bush, Cole Wilmes, Alyssa Wilmes; 1 Great-niece, Corrina Cagle; His Loving 3 sisters Deborah (Jim) Fuller Haman, Linda Fuller and Laurie Fuller Anderson. His Nieces and nephews Emily Cagle, Jacob Haman, Tommy Anderson and Rachel Anderson.
Funeral service at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery, 2900 Sheridan Rd., St. Louis, MO 63125, on Friday, October 17 at 11:30 AM.
A service of Kutis Affton Chapel
Tom always made me feel like a star guest when I would come up to visit. I enjoyed going to his favorite hang out and visiting with his many friends who shared all their funny stories about my brother.
I hope his passing was peaceful and he is in heaven keeping all those who left before him in stitches.
Dad had a way of bringing humor into life. He was funny and witty, always ready with a quick remark that could turn a heavy moment into one filled with laughter. His humor wasn’t just jokes—it was how he showed us that even in the hard times, joy could be found.
He was also a man of hands and heart. He loved building and fixing things, never shying away from taking something broken and making it whole again. That gift wasn’t just about wood, tools, or engines or whatever —it was also how he lived. He knew how to patch up what life wore down and create something lasting and strong.
One of my favorite stories that captures his spirit is about a yellow go-cart he had. He’d sneak out with it at night, his own little adventure, a reminder that behind his quiet nature lived a playful, free-spirited soul. It showed us that even the simplest joys—a ride under the stars, a little mischief in the dark—can be some of the best memories we carry. I’ll miss fixing and building things with you Dad! Until we meet again keep the tools ready.
ever since i can remember on father’s day Dad Kalvin and I would always visit him and it was always the best. Papa had buckets of coins all over his house and no matter what, every time we would get ready to leave he would tell me to fill my pockets with as many coins as it could hold and every time i would be leaving his house trying to hold my pants up because i had them filled with so many coins. he was always loving, funny, and no matter what family was always important to him.
In Loving Memory of Uncle Tom
Uncle Tom had a sense of humor like no one else. Every year when I’d hand him my school picture, he’d smile that mischievous smile and say, “I’ll put it in my underwear drawer to keep the bugs out.” Sending love and condolences.
I’ve known Tom since 7th grade at Buder Grade School, and he was my square dance partner. I remember we actually performed for the school and parents. I had fun, but not too sure any of the boys were thrilled. I am so sorry for your family’s loss. Keep your memories of him close. Take care.
I knew Tom the man who put life back in our x-ray machines – you name it Tom would get us back together – And help us have a better day
Deepest sympathy to all family and friends
I’m so sorry to hear about Tom, he was very rare. Always making me laugh and bringing Lindor candy to everyone in the department. Even when he was in the hospital he would come visit out department with candy and funny conversation.
Truly a nice guy and will be missed.
So sad I just heard about Tom,I owned a bar that Tom would frequent so yes I have a ton of stories.Tom was great I’ve been trying to find Tom for years and now I find out that he was only a few blocks away,I’m not sure if his kids would remember me but I will always remember them,but I will say to them that your dad was awesome and that he loved you, Tom and I talked about you all a lot.I hate to hear this he will be missed and so sorry to the family.
I absolutely remember you Chris. Thank you for you thoughts.
Tom was an outstanding man always quick witted and would always make you laugh. I knew of Tom from working at Washington University and Barnes hospital for the past 36 years.
Tom would always walk around the hospital in between jobs with a bag of candy that if he saw you were having a rough day he would offer some to you.
My thoughts and prayers are for him and his family at this time. Tom was and still is a unique man that I can say I had the pleasure of knowing. Tom and Susan Renaud
My big brother, I miss you every single day and have to remind myself as I start to call you that my plan doesn’t reach heaven. I know you’re at peace and free from the sufferings of this material world. I anticipate seeing you again (just not too soon ;). Love you
Dad, Just wanted to say I miss you so much. I’ve been so sad and mad the last few days. I’m having a really tough time and it’s getting the best of me. I’m trying to stay as strong as I can and I know I will get through this because I have your strength. Love you pops.