Peacefully fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church, on Tuesday, May 19, 2026. Beloved wife of the late Christopher Hoey Sr. Loving mother of Dawn (Ken) Florian, Kimberly (Rob) Thompson, and Christopher (Kristin) Hoey Jr. Dear Mau Mau of Brendan, Allison, the late Noah, Phoebe, Sawyer, Leo, Nolan, and Kinsley. Dear Great-Mau Mau of Hudson. Dear sister of Gary (Cathy)Throm, David (Barb) Throm, and Wayne (Christine) Throm. Dear sister-in-law of Marybeth (Allan) Desloge. Preceded in death by her parents, Rudolph and Marian Throm, father and mother-in-law Patrick Sr. and Elizabeth Hoey, and brother and sister-in-law Patrick Jr. and Patricia Hoey. Our dear aunt, cousin, and friend.
Trudy, a native of St. Louis, MO, attended St. George, Seven Holy Founders, and Cor Jesu Academy before earning her AA in Graphic design. She met the love of her life at the age of 16 and they were married for over 52 years. She was an amazing stay at home mom, who cherished being a very involved and supportive mother. She later worked as a commercial artist. She was an active member of St. Simon the Apostle church and school community. She enjoyed traveling and dancing with her husband, and loved spending time with her family and friends. She couldn’t get enough of her grandchildren. She will be loved and missed by many.
Services: Funeral from Kutis Afton Chapel, 10151 Gravois Rd
Saint Louis, MO 63123 On Thursday, May 28, 9 a.m. to St. Simon the Apostle Catholic Church, for 10:00 am Mass. Interment J.B. National Cemetery. If desired, memorials may be made to the Cure Alzheimer’s Fund.
Visitation Wednesday, May 27, 3-9 p.m.
My dear loving friend. I will miss you always!❤️
A lovely and vibrant lady who was always willing to do for others. She will be missed.
Christopher –
Our condolences to you, Kristin, and your siblings. Your mother was a gracious, beautiful, sweet lady. May your many wonderful memories help get all of you through this difficult time.
Trudy was a vibrant, active, talented woman who gave of her time and talents in many ways: Family first, Saint Simons, and her community of Green Park. Her smile was radiant and her heart giving. I’m certain Chris was at heaven’s gate to welcome her home.
Our condolences to Dawn, Kim and Chris; so many fond memories of your parents and each of you through our years together at St. Simon’s! May God richly reward Trudy and Chris together again in heaven.
Sincerely, Bill & Barb Onder & Family
My condolences to the Hoey family. Trudy was a wonderful, funny, creative person.
Trudy was our first President of the Board of Alderman when the City of
Green Park incorporated in 1994.
She was very helpful in getting our city started. God bless you, Trudy
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Chris:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You and your sisters were blessed with loving, selfless examples to emulate. I am remembering my last conversation with your mother. She indeed was always interested in what she could do for others. God bless her and your dear father as well.
Chris:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You and your sisters were blessed with loving, selfless examples to emulate. I am remembering my last conversation with your mother. She indeed was always interested in what she could do for others. God bless her and your dear father as well.