James W. Lutkewitte, Sr.
3/20/1942-9/19/2026
Fortified with the sacraments of Holy Mother Church on Saturday, September 19, 2026. Preceded in death by his beloved wife of 51 years Maryalice (nee Klotz). Dearest father of Barbara (Jim) Boehm, Joan (Rob) Fischer, Marie (Dan) Scher and Jim (Deidre) Lutkewitte. Loving Grandfather to Claire, Grace, Jacob, Allison, Maggie, Ed, Nora, Ruth, and Grant. Dear uncle, cousin and friend to many.
Anyone that knew Jim heard one of his famous tidbits of advice, some were funny, others more serious. His whole life he knew what was most important: faith, family, and friends. “If you don’t have your faith, you’ve got nothing at all.” He was an imperfect Catholic that knew the importance of practicing your faith and serving others. He volunteered at his parish while raising four kids and out in the community during his retirement: KDHX, Missouri Botanical Garden, The National Blues Museum and Feed My People. His proudest accomplishment was sending all of his children to Catholic schools establishing a firm foundation. “A Catholic education is worth every penny.”
Jim was an adventurer. He loved traveling with family and friends exploring the natural world around him and attempting to communicate with wildlife. He was often heard making his Tarzan calls when the feeling arose. He was lucky enough to travel around the world and believed that “everyone needs a trip or two to look forward to.” He was a big kid. “You’re never too old to have some fun.” He was a lifelong St. Louis Cardinals fan and lover of Blues music. He was a stubborn German that kept a tight schedule of “tini” time at 4:30 with Jeopardy followed by supper. His wish for everyone is to “keep having fun!”
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Feed My People 171 Kingston Dr. St. Louis, MO 63125.
Services: Funeral mass at St. Margaret Mary Alacoque Catholic Church, 4900 Ringer Rd., on Friday, September 25, 2026 at 10 am. Visitation will be at church from 9-10 am before mass.
A Kutis South County Chapel Service
Sorry to all of you for this heavy loss!
To Jim’s family. So sorry to hear of you fathers passing. He now in heaven with your mother.
Jim was a great guy to have gotten to know at St. Francis through our daughter Lori and Marie at school and playing sports. Jim and MaryAlice were special people.
Prayers to ease the pain of your loss
Ken and Dottie
To all of Jim’s kids and in laws . Our deepest sympathy. Your dad was a fun loving faith filled man. Very happy with all his children. Will miss his smile and sense of humor. I know Maryalice is welcoming him with open arms. Prayers for all of you.
Barb,
I’m so sorry to hear of your father’s passing. He sounded like a terrific man, a good mix of everything.
Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. My wife Laura mentioned him as being such a nice guy several times over the years. I only wish I could have spent some time around him myself.
May each passing day bring nothing but joyful memories to you all.
Rest in peace Jim.
You will be missed, yet we believe that the better life awaits.
Remember us in your prayers as we remember you.
Barb sorry to hear of your dad’s death. Worked many years with your mom and dad at events at St Francis especially lots of fish fries. Condolences to your family
So sorry to hear of your loss. I know he loved his family and would want you to hold on to all the memories you have of him.
Our deepest sympathy to the Lutkewitte family. We will miss seeing him in the neighborhood. Rest in peace Jim.
Such a good man! Always loved the little interactions I had with your dad at your Fourth of July gatherings and other family events. He was always so friendly and kind. I’m glad to know he is at peace in the loving arms of his Savior and hopefully spending time ‘catching some of his favorite shows’ up there in Heaven with your mom at his side. Prayers and hugs for you at this tough time.
Our loss is heaven’s gain! I can just see your mom in heaven’s gate, smiling and welcoming him with open arms. Your parents were both such good people. Jim will definitely be missed at SFA but remembered for his faith and volunteer work. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Lutkewitte family.
Your parents were such wonderful people! I can just see your mom smiling at heaven’s gates with open arms welcoming your dad! Jim will be missed at SFA for his faith and volunteer work. Out thoughts and prayers go out to Marie, Jimmy, Barb and Joan and your families.
Sharon and I are so sorry for your loss.We know Jim was loved all of you very much
Our sincere condolences to the Lutkewitte family. May he rest in peace.
Frank & I were saddened to hear of the loss of your dear dad- often at
The fish fry we would entertain one another and the crowd while folks
Waited in the line for their beverage-he was such a joy to be with – your parents are together !!!!!!
I loved Jim. We had so many great times at Feed MY People. It will not be the same without him. Rest in peace brother.
Barb, and the rest of your family, I am so saddened to hear of your dad’s passing. Please know my prayers are with all of you. So happy he will be with your mom again.
Saddened to hear of Jim’s passing. Such a wonderful faith filled man. Got the news at HouseFit, we all had a great memory to share. Toasted him with a N.A. gin and tonic! Prayers for you all
Please accept our condolences on the passing of your dear father and grandfather. We are offering our prayers and Mass intentions for the repose of his soul and for your family’s comfort during this time of grief.
Réquiem aeternam dona ei, Dómine, et lux perpétua lúceat ei. Requiéscat in pace. Amen
In Christ,
The Coulter Family~
Shocked to hear of Jim’s passing. I was fortunate to meet Jim in college for all four years. Jim was such a great person with a wonderful sense of humor and possessed a strong belief in his religion. As years passed we went our separate way but fortunately these past few years we were able to reconnect and and have lunch and a mini reunion with our engineering classmates. From our conversations, it was very evident that Jim lived his faith. One of the last things Jim sent me was a write up on Plenary Indulgences, which I use to this day.
Rest Easy Big Guy. Some day we’ll gather again and rehash all the good times.
My sincerest condolences to the Lutkewitte Family.