Thomas Hamilton McCracken, beloved husband, father, grandfather, teacher, and coach, passed away peacefully at home on July 11, 2025, surrounded by his family. Born to Homer and Esther McCracken in St. Louis, Missouri, Tom was the youngest of six children. Known as “Pop,” “Coach,” “Dad,” or “Great-Pop,” his life was marked by deep loyalty—to his faith, his family, and his friends.
Tom and Betty met on a baseball field at Roosevelt High School when they were 15 and 16 years old. They married on August 25, 1962, and shared 63 wonderful years of marriage. Together, they raised five children: Tom Scott McCracken, Jennifer Lynn Patterson, Curtis Arnold McCracken, Mark David McCracken, and Sandra Marie McCracken Nicholson. Their family grew to include nine grandchildren and five great-grandchildren, all of whom he loved dearly.
Tom earned his undergraduate and master’s degrees at Southeast Missouri State University, where he ran track and field and was a natural athlete. After college, he began teaching and coaching in Cape Girardeau and Kinmundy, Illinois, before returning to St. Louis.
For over three decades, Tom taught and coached in the St. Louis area—21 years at Lindbergh High School and 14 more as head of the science department at Clayton High School. At Lindbergh, he started what would become a legendary boys’ cross country program. Under his leadership, the teams won seven consecutive state titles. In 2021, Tom and his teams were inducted into the Missouri Sports Hall of Fame. He often said, “You just can’t give up,” and instilled that belief in everyone he coached—building not just stamina and strength, but confidence and character.
As a teacher, Tom’s passion for science was contagious. He led AP Biology classes where students routinely earned top scores, sparking lifelong interests in science, medicine, and education. Former students still speak of how he taught them to think, believe, and work hard—not just in the classroom, but in life.
Tom’s impact reached far beyond his formal roles. As a father, brother, uncle, teacher, coach, mentor, and friend, he shaped the lives of countless people across generations. He was a natural encourager—always a cheerleader for others, whether on the sidelines of a race, a school event, or a grandchild’s performance. He brought humor, insight, and unwavering enthusiasm into every room he entered.
Tom’s life was full of adventure and a love for the great outdoors. He enjoyed hiking, mountain climbing, leading ski trips, playing golf, and listening to live music. Sunday afternoons often meant heading out to hear the bluegrass jam sessions after church—a joyful tradition he and Betty continued even just a few weeks ago.
He is survived by his wife Betty, his five children, his grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and his brothers, John McCracken and Ron McCracken. He was preceded in death by siblings Homer McCracken, Robert McCracken, and Doris Kuhn.
Those who knew Tom remember his life as one of faithfulness, lived with great conviction and love. As a husband and father, a teacher and coach, he gave his all—and in doing so, inspired others to do the same. He will be remembered and missed by so many.
Rest in peace, Tom. The real celebration is just beginning for you in heaven. We are grateful for your amazing life and legacy.
Visitation at Kutis Affton Chapel 10151 Gravois Rd. 63123 on Tuesday, July 15 from 10:00 am. until Funeral Service time at 12 noon. Interment at Park Lawn Cemetery.
I was fortunate to know Tom through his love for golf and working with him as a usher for Cardinals
He was a wise and thoughtful man will be miss
Bill Auer
Coach McCracken’s first year leading the Lindbergh High School cross country team was my senior year. I was not the strongest or fastest runner on his team, but through his guidance — especially his belief in me and the ways he taught me to relax my mind and non-running muscles while performing — I was the only Lindbergh runner who qualified and ran at the state championship. I only connected with him a few times after I went away to college, and that was my loss. Seeing him in recent years brought back so many of the life lessons he instilled in us through his gentle coaching style. The ongoing performances of his running teams are a testament not only to his coaching style, but more importantly to his character. I credit him as one of the most constructive influences in my life.
Coach was a profound impact upon my life. He provided guidance and positive reinforcement guided by a sincere desire to help a teenager in the ‘70’s. He created opportunities for me no one else could match. Long live the memories of Cross Country (he was ahead of the times). Rest in peace. Thank you Coach!!
I had the honor of playing a few rounds of golf with Coach McCracken at The Acorns Golf Links. He lived and played by his motto “You just can’t give up” .
He will be missed on the course.
My sincere condolences to his family and all of his friends.
Ron Auer