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In Loving Memory

Sondag, Betty J. (nee Herman)

Sondag, Betty J. (nee Herman) Baptized into the Hope of Christ’s Resurrection on Sunday, November 12, 2023

Beloved wife of the late Raymond J. Sondag, loving mother of Ben, Ma’Chelle, Kevin and Lisa (Brian); stepmother of Patsy (Mark), Mona, Ray (Kelli), Chris (Kim), cherished grandmother and great-grandmother; our dear sister, sister-in-law, aunt, cousin and friend to many.

Service: Visitation at KUTIS SOUTH COUNTY CHAPEL 5255 Lemay Ferry Rd. on Thursday, December 7, 4-8 p.m. Please Note: Funeral Mass will be held (the following Tuesday) at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church (Telegraph Rd.), December 12, 1 p.m. Burial J.B. National Cemetery. In Betty’s honor donations to American Parkinson’s Disease Association would be greatly appreciated.  https://www.apdaparkinson.org/community/missouri/


14 thoughts on “Sondag, Betty J. (nee Herman)”

  1. I had not had the opportunity to visit with Betty for many years. But my memories of her are of a kind & loving lady. I am saddened to learn of her passing. My condolences to Ben, MaChelle, Kevin, and Lisa. May your mom rest in peace.

  2. MaChelle, so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. You look so much like her. I know you will greatly miss her as well as your siblings. My sincere sympathies to all of you!❤️.

  3. My deepest sympathies on the loss of your dear Mother. May she rest in eternal peace! With respect from Rolf Bjordammen Mississauga Ontario Canada

  4. Chelle,
    I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you cared for your mother, and how much you loved her ! My prayers and thoughts will be with you and your family💓

  5. You look so much like your mother! MaChelle, I am so sorry to learn about the passing of your mother. May you hold on to wonderful memories of her! And may she rest in God’s perpetual love and peace. Take comfort in knowing you will see her again. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  6. Beautiful As Alwaya Such A Kind And Loving lady Love her so much Sorry For Your Loss We Adore and enjoyed Taking Care Of Her Will Miss that beautiful Smile ♥️🙏

  7. MaChelle,
    Condolences . So sorry about your loss. You have been so good to her. We really like it when you brought her to line dance classes. Prayers
    From Mila and the line dancers.

  8. I second Mila’s comment. Having her come to dance class was such a joy. And knowing how you cared for your Mom was amazing! She was a beautiful woman and she raised a beautiful daughter.
    Few things are harder than losing our moms. Take care of yourself. Prayers and hugs.

  9. MaChelle – You truly are a lovely image of your Precious Mother! May your sorrow over her loss in your daily life be a gain in the heavenly realm. And may the wonderful memories of her life remain forever imprinted in those who held her dear. Love You!

  10. Dear MaChelle, Ben, Kevin, and Lisa,
    Your mother was a such a beautiful soul, inside and out. I will always remember her as loving, sensible, and strong. She had a way of cutting through the fluff to get down to what was really important. It is so hard to say goodbye, and yet I know she has gone home to be with the Lord. May you find peace and comfort in the happy memories of the times you spent with her. You are all in my prayers.

  11. Dear MaChelle, Ben, Kevin and Lisa, I did not know your Mother well. She married Ray, a man my late husband worked with. Whenever my husband spoke of Ray he always added what a nice gentleman Ray was. When we ran into them occassionaly , I could see what a lovely couple they made. We were both happy for them. Seems to me the two of them left this world a better place, for the people they left behind. How very fortunate you all were to have had them in your life. I wish you the peace that only faith in something greater than ourselves can give us. God Bless you

  12. Sweet Lisa, and all the other brothers, sisters, grandchildren and friends, My prayers 🙏🏻 are with each one of you!
    Praying for Holy Spirit to comfort each of you in all the individually and uniquely ways needed🙏🏻💫!
    I thank Jesus for making a way for Betty and all of us to enter into our everlasting home! Oh what joy she must be experiencing as she is in Heaven and also untied with other loved ones and is still able to watch over each of us “even better than our limitations here on earth”. I rejoice that she knew our King and Savior!

  13. My friend Lisa,
    I thank God for your Mother.
    She has passed that same sweet, loving and kindness on to you.

    I pray for You and your brothers and sisters for your strength and Peace.


  14. Ma’Chelle (Mac),

    Sending you my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Mom. My heart and prayers are with you.

    With Much Love,


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