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Ashley Steffens

In Loving Memory

Steffens, Ashley Nichole (nee Harvey)

June 25, 1992 - April 28, 2024

Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church on Sunday, April 28, 2024.

Loving wife of Ryan Steffens of 2 ½ years; beloved daughter of Scott and Susan Harvey (nee Walker); dearest sister of Julie (Brendan) Keller; dear granddaughter of Yvonne and the late Gerald Walker and Rebecca and the late Ronald Harvey; daughter-in-law of Gary and Cheryl Steffens; sister-in-law of Brandon (Ally) Steffens; our dear niece, cousin and friend of many.

If you would like to make a donation in lieu of flowers, we ask that you make a donation in Ashley’s name to Home 2 Home Canine Orphanage or @AshleyForeverStrong (on Venmo).

Service from Kutis Affton Chapel, 10151 Gravois Rd. on Tuesday, May 7, 9:30 a.m. to St. Paul Catholic Church, 15 Forest Knoll Dr. (Fenton) for a 10:00 a.m. Mass.  Interment Resurrection Cemetery.  Visitation Monday 3:00 – 8:00 p.m.

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41 thoughts on “Steffens, Ashley Nichole (nee Harvey)”

  1. Ashley was one of the sweetest, most kind and fun people I’ve ever had the pleasure of getting to know. I, and so many others, will miss her so much.

    Marty Linck

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  2. I was so shocked to hear about Ashley. I worked with Ashley at CBS Radio. She was an amazing person. Ryan and family I am deeply sorry for your loss. Praying for all of you and for Ashley.

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  3. So sorry to hear about your granddaughter Ashley my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time I will keep Sue’s daughter in my prayers

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  4. The world has lost a beautiful soul. I will always remember the many years of playing volleyball with Ashley. My thoughts are with Sue, Scott, the entire Harvey family, and of course her husband. I pray you find peace in this devastating time .

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  5. Ashley, I will miss you forever. You were such a bright light and a beautiful soul. Please watch over us and know I will be thinking of you and your family every day.

    Love and miss you forever,

    Ashley Moehlenbrock, the other UA Ashley.

    You are loved. You are missed. My heart is breaking for this loss and I am here praying for your family.

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  6. I’m simply stunned and heartbroken over this, and extend my deepest sympathies and constant prayers to her family, including Ryan and Simba. I was her mentor/boss at Rawlings, but enjoyed our friendship that stemmed from that, and will miss her tremendously. She was an amazing soul.

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  7. Ashley was one of the hardest workers I’ve known. An awesome individual. Sweet and caring person. She will be greatly missed. I am so sorry for your loss. Bev Elifritz

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  8. Ashley was one of the hardest workers I’ve known. An awesome individual. Sweet and caring person. She will be greatly missed. I am so sorry for your loss.

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  9. I’m truly heartbroken. My prayers and love go out to family plus Simba and Griffy. Although we had only been friends for a year— Ashley’s warmth and wit was inviting and I came to really cherish our friendship. Ashley had a light that will be missed.

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  10. Ryan, Susan, Yvonne and Family,
    We are so sorry for your loss of sweet Ashley. Our hearts break for you. We are praying for everyone.
    Love,
    Steve and Cindy Tornatore & Family

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  11. We are beyond heartbroken by this news; we send our deepest sympathies to Ryan and her family. My husband and I have known Ryan and Ashley for several years and Ashley was always cheerful, fun-loving and a great energy to be around. She had the biggest heart and the warmest and most welcoming personality. She will forever be in our memories and will be missed by so many. We send our thoughts and prayers to Ryan and all of her Family during this time of grief. She was a wonderful person inside and out and the world has experienced a great loss.

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  12. Ryan, Susan, Scott and Julie –
    Deepest condolences to each of you. My heart breaks knowing that Ashley is gone. She had the best heart and would do anything to help someone in need. I will miss her laugh and her sense of adventure. Ashley and I worked together at Drive and at Maritz but most importantly, I had the privilege of having her as a friend. I am keeping you all in my prayers. May you find comfort and strength in your memories of Ashley.

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  13. Ashley was the bestest friend, coworker, softball partner, drinking buddy, hype woman and our heart breaks that we lost her so soon. All of our best memories include Ashley. We will never forget her.

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  14. Ashley improved the life of every person that got the privilege to be in her orbit. What started as a business relationship blossomed fiancé into a bond between Ashley, Ryan, my fiance Heather and I that was truly a beacon of light in our lives. We are so grateful that we got to share so many wonderful memories and moments at work, on the softball field, at the south city dive bars, and deep within our hearts. We will carry Ashley’s memory with us forever. She is truly irreplaceable. Our love and prayers go out to Ryan and Ashley’s family during this incredibly difficult time. Fly high, sweet angel.

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  15. Ashley and I worked closely together at CBS. She was one of the most genuine, hardworking, down to earth people I ever worked with. She was always so supportive of me, my goals and work. If someone felt left out or down, she spoke up and made sure you felt included. She always went out of her way. I wish I could go back and thank her for your authenticity and professionalism. No words will be enough but Sending prayers of comfort and strength to her husband, simba, and her family/friends during this difficult time.

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  16. My sincerest condolences to all Ashley’s friends and family. I worked with Ashley last year and she was one of the best clients I’ve ever had the pleasure of working with and the nicest, most chill person. Absolutely unreal.

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  17. Our deepest sympathy and prayers to all of you as Ashley enters the joys of heaven.
    She will always be remembered for the joy she brought to others.
    Her infectious laugh filled the halls of St. Agnes Home.
    May Jesus comfort you in his loving arms.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you…Love, Ruth and Rick

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  18. My deepest sympathies go out to Ryan, Ashley’s parents, and the rest of the families. May God hold you all close at this very difficult time.

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  19. Scott and Sue I am so sorry for your tragic loss. I can’t imagine the pain you are going through but our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

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  20. Sue and family,
    I’m so very sorry for your loss. I have no words other than to please know that many people are holding you up in prayer and sending you all love and light.
    May God be with you and your beautiful daughter now and forever.
    Michele (Shelly) Condit Hebrank
    UA class of 1982

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  21. What a bright beautiful young woman. Ashley always had a smile on her face. My sincere condolances for your loss.

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  22. Sue & Family,
    My deepest sympathy on the loss of your daughter Ashley. We are holding you up in prayer and sending you all love….
    Matt Teter

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  23. Scott and Susan, and all those who knew and loved Ashley,
    I’m sorry to hear of your unimaginable loss. There are few words that I can offer you that will comfort you, but you will be in my thoughts and I will pray for you to be granted peace.

    Debbie (Harvey) Bowers, Muscatine, Iowa

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  24. Ryan, Susan, Scott and Julie,
    You have my warmest condolences and sympathy for this tragic loss. I had the privilege to work close with Ashley at Maritz and we were recently together in New York onsite with our clients. We all loved her fun spirit and positive attitude. She made me laugh and put a smile on my face. Ashley was one of our top hardest working superstars with a bright future in our company. I hope that you can continue staying strong together and share the positive memories of Ashley. I am sending my thoughts, prayers and love your way.
    All the best,
    Yurii

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  25. Ryan, Susan, Scott, Yvonne and family,
    My deepest sympathy for your unimaginable loss of Ashley. You are in my thoughts, and I pray for strength, peace, and love to surround you abundantly.
    With love,
    Liz Bogosian

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  26. Dear Harvey and Steffens Family,
    Words cannot begin to express how sad to hear about Ashley. Having worked with her in radio, I got witness what a wonderful person she was. Her dedication, work ethic, and can-do outlook showed what a great person she was to each person who met her. My daily prayers include Ryan and your families. God bless.

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  27. I am so very sorry for your loss. Ashley and I have worked together at Maritz for the last year. We spent hours together while on site in San Diego and many many more hours planning together, leading up to our trip. I am so very sad for this news! Ashley was so strong, a hard worker, and simply put – amazing!! She found the fun in all we did, even with challenges and long hours. I will so miss our daily chats and pray that Ryan and her family will have Gods healing hands on you throughout this journey of loss.

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  28. I am so sorry for your tragic loss of Ashley. My deepest sympathy to everyone and praying for God to give everyone peace, comfort and strength during this terribly difficult time. Love, Carolyn McKenzie

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  29. I worked with Ashley at CBS Radio. She was so incredibly sweet and hard working. After she left CBS I was a part of some fundraisers that Ashley worked on with Eventiv and was still kind enough to come over and catch up for a few minutes. She made everywhere she worked a better place, and it’s awful that her life was cut so short. May you be comforted with all of your wonderful memories of her. My prayers are with your family.

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  30. Our family was sad to learn about Ashley, please accept our deepest condolances. Please know you will be in our thoughts and prayers.

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  31. So sorry to hear about your granddaughter Ashley my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. I will keep Sue’s daughter in my prayers. From Blanca and family.

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  32. I am sending peace, comfort, and strength to Harvey and Steffens family during this difficult time. Ashley was my coworker at CBS Radio. She was a true professional with a kind spirit. So sorry for your loss.

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  33. Scott & Sue, I cannot imagine the pain and heartache you’re feeling. I am praying for your peace and comfort during this difficult time.

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  34. I am so so sorry to hear this and for your loss. I had the privilege of working with Ashley and getting to know her and it was a pleasure every single day. Her grace under pressure was an inspiration to everyone around her.

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  35. I met Ashley through my son Sam and Daughter-in-law Tiffany. I was blessed to chat with her a few weeks ago at the Battlehawks game. She was a wonderful girl! She was so good with my grandson Sammy. My heartbreaks for Ryan, The Harvey/Steffen family and ALL the friends who have lost someone so DEAR to them. Yesterday at the funeral I looked around at a packed church and thought, WOW she had effected so many in her short life. How amazing and Blessed all in that church were to have know her.
    I will miss her at my sons 4th of July party and her keeping everything in control with him and his fireworks 🙂 She was his “helper”!
    My thoughts and prayers are with you all in the difficult times you will face ahead.
    She will be looking down, and what I have come to know of her, is she would want everyone to enjoy life!
    Prayers to each and everyone of you!
    Diane Garavaglia Baxter

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  36. Sue & Scott,
    our deepest condolences for your loss. Prayers and best thoughts for you and your family.
    Brian & Laura Murphy

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  37. Sue, Scott, and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine the grief and devastation you are going through. My heart aches for you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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