Age 69, Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church on Friday, October 31, 2025.
Patricia Eileen Coppinger (née Harbaugh) was born in St. Louis, Missouri, to Stephen and Eileen Harbaugh and was welcomed into eternal life after a lifetime of faith, family, and service to others.
A proud sister, Pat deeply loved her family and cherished her siblings: Steve (Glenda) Harbaugh, Mark Harbaugh, the late Kathleen Fitzgerald, and the late Daniel (Kelly) Harbaugh. She was a devoted mother to Laura and Kevin (Kara) Coppinger and loved being a grandmother to Mae, Elsie, and John. Pat was an incredibly special aunt, sister-in-law, cousin and friend to many.
Pat was a graduate of Cor Jesu Academy, later earning her degree from Webster University and dedicating 30 years to her teaching career. Her lessons, however, reached far beyond the classroom. Through her warmth, kindness, and example, she taught others the value of faith, generosity, and joy in simple things.
She found God in the everyday moments —attending morning Mass, planting and caring for flowers at St. Raphael, baking cookies or preparing meals for family and friends, volunteering at the Ronald McDonald House, sharing laughter with her “gal pals,” carrying on beloved family traditions, enjoying the beach, and caring for every dog that crossed her path.
Pat’s life was a reflection of her faith—a quiet, steady love rooted in service and joy. Her family finds comfort knowing she is now reunited in heaven with her parents and siblings and that she has found the peace and happiness she longed for in the presence of our Lord.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations in her honor to the Dan Harbaugh Endowment at the Ronald McDonald House Charities of St Louis or St Raphael the Archangel Parish.
SERVICES: We invite you to join us in celebrating Pat’s life at St. Raphael the Archangel Catholic Church (6047 Bishops Place, 63109) on Saturday, November 8, 9:30 AM visitation until 10:00 AM Mass. Burial to follow at Resurrection Cemetery.
Patty was such a wonderful friend to my mom and a constant, comforting presence as I grew up. I will miss her deeply and will always hold her close in my heart.
Pat and I taught special ed together at Sperreng Middle School in the mid 80’s, I impressed with her skill, dedication and generous spirit, which she carried into teaching ELA for many years. We were good friends, and it was evident that she adored her family. She always had a positive, kind demeanor and she touched countless lives, I’m sending sincere condolences to her family and to all who loved her at this saddest of times.
We are da girls! I’ve spent many years of
weekends and our week trips to Florida. Patty and I would be up early outside with our coffee and cigs talking about family,kids, whatever! I will miss her sense of humor, her kindness, always making sure everyone had what we needed. Be at peace my friend, love you 😘
Pat was always friendly and professional. She will be missed.
Fly with the angels my dear, sweet friend.
I had so much fun with Pat and the grandchildren we shared together.
She will be deeply missed.
My deepest sympathy to her family and friends.
I worked with Pat at Sperreng for many years……she was always smiling and so accommodating to all. May her memory be eternal 🙏🙏🕯️🕯️
Always enjoyed being on team with Pat when I first came to Lindbergh (Sperreng). Sorry to hear of her passing!!
Pat was my Big Sister at Cor Jesu.
She was such a good role model to me. Always had a smile on her face!!!
She will be missed
We are da girls! I’ve spent many years of weekends and our week trips to Florida. Patty and I would be up early outside with our coffee and cigs talking about family,kids, whatever! I will miss her sense of humor, her kindness, always making sure everyone had what we needed. Be a peace my friend, love you 😘
I always enjoyed Pat’s visits to her family and as a fellow Cardinals fan, I would always appreciate when she would bring me some Cardinals stuff. She will be missed.
The flower beds around Saint Raphael Archangel Church always looked beautiful thanks to Patty. She worked diligently to make the church grounds look manicured and vibrant. Patty was a devout member of the parish and will be truly missed. Rest in Jesus’ peace, Patty……
I shall miss her very much. May perpetual light shine upon her.
Pat was a delightful friend and an outstanding colleague during our years as Special School District Professionals then later as she was employed as a Lindbergh teacher. I, as well as many others, were enriched by knowing her in so many capacities.
God bless you, Pat and your family.
May eternal rest be granted to you, may the Perpetual Light shine upon you, rest in peace.
Pat is enrolled perpetually in the Seraphic Mass Association and will share in special Novenas and Masses, daily prayers, sacrifices, and good works of the Capuchin Friars throughout the world.
I was blessed to enjoy Pat’s friendship at Cor Jesu and then when she mentored me as a new teacher at Sperreng Middle School. To see her in recent years was a great privilege! Love you.
Dear Pat, (Patty Cakes) was my best friend and I loved her to pieces. Even in hospice she cut grass, cooked, worshipped and sat on our patio slurping coffee together. So many memories. So many more things I can say about Patty Cakes, but I think everyone already knows her specialness and gifts. I admire her extremely and will honor Pat all the days of my life. Until I see you again sweet girl. Fluffy
Pat was a good friend of mine at Sperreng Middle School. She was bright and fun to be with. Pat was professional and caring and always one help with whatever needed to be done. Rest in peace, sweet Pat.
Dear Kevin, Lori and family,
We were so sorry to hear about your your mom’s, Pat’s passing. During our St. Matthias days, many years ago, we always had fun and lots of laughs at school activities. We know this is an incredibly difficult time, but please know that we are thinking of you, and are sending hugs and prayers.
Pat was an angel put here on earth. Just caught up either her on October 1. So glad I did. She will be sorely missed. Loved this woman.
Love
Lisa