McArthy, Janis Amalia – April 28, 1936 – March 1, 2026; Fortified with the Sacrements of Holy Mother Church, Janis A. McArthy, age 89, passed away peacefully on Sunday, March 1, 2026. She was born on April 28, 1936 to the late Jacob and Helen (nee Brune) Laiben; Beloved wife to the late Brooks C. McArthy for 68 years; Loving mother of Michelle (Craig) Forthaus, Nannette McArthy, the late Brooks (Shari) McArthy, Darren McArthy, Christy McArthy, Kelly (Jay) Lavick, and Collette Capellupo; Cherished grandmother to Kyle (Katelyn) Forthaus, Tyler (Erica) Forthaus, Cori (Ryan) Parker, Clayton (Tina) Clark, Nicholas (Darci) Clark, Anthony (Jennifer) Clark, Eric (Deanna) Clark, Derrick (Stephanie) Clark, Bettina (Kenny) Woolsey, Amanda (Matthew) Foust, Brooks J. (Amy) McArthy, Benjamin (Kayla) McArthy, Jessica (Brett) Nickless, Joshua Lavick, Rachel Lavick, Elli (Jonathan) Flowers, Caroline Capellupo, and Jacob Capellupo; Treasured great-grandmother to 35; Loving sister to the late Bonnie (Ronnie) Brooks; Dearest aunt, niece, cousin and friend.
Jan met the love of her life, Brooks, when her cousin, Herb, set them up on a blind date; that was August 15, 1951. Sharing a love for dance, their first date was dancing on the Admiral. They moved in rhythm with each other both on the dance floor and throughout their lives. Brooks’ dreams and goals became her aspirations too. They were adored partners to the end, supporting and loving each other more every day. Along with dancing, Brooks and Jan shared a love of family, golf, tennis and traveling. They certainly had a beautiful and happy union, filled with fond memories and laughter over their 72+ years together.
Jan treasured her family. Their home quickly filled with love and laughter, as they became the parents of seven. Dance and music resonated in their home; Neil Diamond and CCR were among her favorites. She loved attending her kids’ and grandkids’ multitude of events. Holidays with all the family was her joy; creating scavenger hunts and cherished memories. She never missed family members’ special days with Hallmark cards which she personalized with heartfelt words, turning these cards into keepsakes. Whether it was a challenging game of Chinese Checkers, or a simple card game, Jan enjoyed time with her family. The last few years, Friday nights were filled with pizza, stories, and cards. She was charitable with both her time and treasures; volunteering and supporting many local charities. She will be dearly missed by her family and friends, and will remain forever in our hearts.
The family would like to express extraordinary thanks to her care friends: Michele B. and Kelly E.
Services: Visitation will be held Saturday, March 7, 2026 at St. Margaret Mary Alacoque, 4900 Ringer Road, St. Louis, MO 63129 from 9:00am until 10:00am mass. Jan has chosen to donate her body to the medical school at SLU. In lieu of flowers, donations honoring Janis McArthy may be made to Our Lady’s Inn, 4223 South Compton, St. Louis, MO 63111. By Kutis South County Chapel.
So sorry to hear the news!
Sounds like she had a lot of blessings. May your memories make you smile. 💗
Nan, my sympathy and condolences to you and your entire family. Wishing you God’s peace during this difficult time.
Thank you Michaeli! ❤️
Nan so sorry for your loss, it is so difficult to lose a parent. Sending prayers to you and your family at this time of your loss.
Nan, Please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and all of your family at this most difficult time. Find comfort in the many, many years of fond memories. May the gates of heaven welcome their most beautiful new angel. May God bless all of you.
Nan,
I am saddened to hear of your beloved mother’s passing. She was a wonderful person who instilled so much goodness and light into everyone she loved. All of my prayers and love are with you all.
Love,
Matt and Jill Wider
My heart hurts for you and your family. She was a beautiful woman and it’s obvious that she lived a very happy, full life. God Blessed her with a peaceful passing. My deepest sympathies.
Nan. I am so very sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. Losing a parent is so incredibly painful. I will be praying for you and the family as you maneuver this difficult time. Please know I am here for you. Your mom is dancing with the angels!!♥️
Nan, As difficult this must be for your family, I can only imagine how wonderful the reunion has been for your mother and her “sweetie “ – I know she has missed him so so much. She is also reunited with her little boy and her loving sister . No more sadness, longing or pain! I’m glad you and your brothers and sisters were so blessed with such a wonderful, sweet , energetic mother! May the memories you share comfort you till that day that it is her waiting at that gate to give you one of her beautiful smiles and all embracing hugs – all my love your friend always Terrie
My condolences to the family and her friends and especially to my friend Nannette. We’re here for you Nan.
Prayers and love to you and yours ❤️💕♥️🙏🙏🙏
Nan,
My heart goes out to you and your entire family. She certainly was a wonderful Mother and Grandmother and left cherished memories you all will have forever. God bless her soul. 🙏
With all my Love I join You and the entire Family in the Passing of Janis – Knowing of her Faith and reuniting with so many that have gone before her brings peace as we adjust to her passing from us here. ~~~ Lovingly Aunt Jan
Nan, may the Lord give you strength to get through this difficult time. He helped me when my mother passed.
Condolences to your family
Nan, I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom left a great family legacy, and she will be missed. I pray for your comfort during this tough time. May Jesus wrap his loving arms around you as you grieve.
So very sorry for your loss, you were so blessed with such a special and loving mom and dad.. she will be missed but praying she lives on in each of you, which is a lot! Love you! Jean
Always a joy seeing Jan at family events, game night and Friday night pizza! She always wanted to make sure we were good and always checked on my mom to see how she was doing! She definitely will be missed.
To Nanette and Michelle and all members of the McArthy family:
It has been an honor to come to know your mom Jan and your Dad Brooks. They raised such amazing children, who also gave them amazing grandchildren. Jan was such a charming and classy lady! She was kind and caring to everyone!
Jan’s love for Dance walzed over to her girls, Her love for St Lous Cardinals Baseball was celebrated by all of her family too! Jan’s love and devotion for God was evident to everyone! What an amazing and beautiful lady! We will certainly miss you Jan! Jan made our world a better place!
So sorry for your loss. May your memories of your sweet Mom comfort you & help you to navigate this difficult time🥰
We have been blessed with loving parents to guide us through life. But now without them we feel the loss. They have left us a beautiful legacy to pass on. May God hold you and comfort you as you go through this time. Many prayers for you and your family with love. Heaven is their home together.