Robert Dean Ottinger II, age 67, passed away peacefully at his home in Hillsboro, Missouri, on Friday, August 22, 2025. Bobby spent most of his life in the St. Louis and Jefferson County areas, where he built a life rooted in love, service, and family.
Bobby proudly served his country in the United States Air Force from 1980 to 1984 as an Electronic Warfare Technician. Following his service, he continued a career defined by dedication and purpose. In July of 2024, Bobby retired as Facilities Manager from the Salvation Army. His commitment to his work reflected his dedication, strength and steady presence—qualities that defined him throughout his life.
Above all, Bobby cherished time with his family. Whether it was a trip to Starbucks, a planned adventure to Colorado, or a spontaneous outing, he delighted in making memories with the people he loved most. His joy came not from grand gestures but from simple, shared moments—treasures he passed on to those around him.
He is survived by his Darlin’ wife, Holly Tullock-Ottinger, cherished sons, Robert Ryan (Natalie) Ottinger, Kyle Dean Ottinger, bonus children, Abby Tullock, Cody Tullock; adored grandchildren, Robert Scott and Eve Fe Ottinger, Grant and Annabelle Steinfeld. His loving mother, Rose (Buz) Schwend. Siblings, Brian (Mandy) Ottinger, Scott Ottinger (Dani Jo Smith), Tami (Jimmy) Harris and Sister-in-law Maureen Ottinger. Affectionately known as, C.U.B. (Cool Uncle Bobby) to his adored nieces and nephews. Cousin, nephew and friend to many.
He was preceded in death by his father, Robert Dean Ottinger; his brothers, Kurt Ottinger and Todd Schwend.
A memorial service celebrating Bobby’s life will be held at Kutis Funeral Home, 5255 Lemay Ferry Rd, St. Louis, MO 63129, on Thursday, August 28, at 12:00 p.m., with visitation beginning at 10:00 a.m. The burial will follow at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery at 1:30 p.m., with a lunch/dinner gathering afterward at the Elk’s Lodge, 1515 Miller Rd, Imperial, MO 63052. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to SVdP Sacred Heart Valley Park Conference, 17 Ann Avenue, Valley Park, MO 63088 at (636) 825-2097.
Bobby will be remembered for his deep love of family, his unwavering sense of duty, and his gift for turning ordinary days into cherished memories. Though his presence will be profoundly missed, his legacy of love will continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew him.