Robert Joseph Reeves, “Bob”, age 60, passed away peacefully in his home, surrounded by his loved ones on June 27, 2025, in St. Louis, Missouri after a fierce battle with lung, brain, and bone cancer. Bob was a man of faith and family. He was a loving and devoted husband to Susan Reeves (nee Ehnes), a supportive and warm father to Sarah (Zach) and Nicole (Greg), and a beloved brother to Rick and Ron (Esther). He was a dear son-in-law to Joyce and Gerald (Barbara); brother-in-law to Linda, Jerry, Michael (Carrie), and Scott (Amy); uncle to Michael, Shelby (Rich), Melanie (Aaron), Andrew, Emma, Mackenzie, and Charlie; and a great-uncle to Ella and Piper. He was a friend, a brother-in-Christ, and a mentor to many.
Born on April 8, 1965 to the late Richard Reeves and Elizabeth J. Baldus Larimore in Belleville, IL, Bob spent his early life developing a love for all things mechanical. It was well known that there wasn’t a thing Bob couldn’t fix. As Bob grew, so did his wisdom, which he would generously pass on to those who asked. One sentiment Bob shared with all was to, “remember, 2+2 = 4, but so does 3+1,” reminding us to keep an open mind and appreciate the perspective of others. A unique man himself, Bob valued the qualities that made each person special and encouraged others to do the same.
Bob was not only dedicated to his family, but to serving the Lord. An active member of Gateway Christian Church, he spent much of his time lending a hand to those in need, be it setting up chairs for service, mowing a lawn, fixing a bicycle up to be donated to a child in need, rescuing a friend when their vehicle stranded them, mentoring those reentering the workforce after time in prison, or offering a listening ear and a prayer to someone in need. His favorite verse was, Ephesians 6:13, “Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm,” which offered him the strength and courage to face life’s challenges with faith, perseverance, and supplication.
In lieu of flowers, please consider honoring Bob’s memory by donating to Love the Lou, Operation Storehouse, or Feed My Starving Children – In Memory of Bob Reeves, all organizations Bob volunteered with and held close to his heart.
Services: A Celebration of Bob’s Life will be held at Gateway Christian Church (1951 Des Peres Rd. St. Louis, MO 63131) on Tuesday, July 15, 2025 at 3:00 pm. Bob would have asked you to come as you are-no tie necessary. He never went anywhere without his hat, so his family welcomes you to wear one in his honor.
Bob Reeves is one of the kindest, most generous, and hardest working men I have ever had the pleasure of calling a friend. He did so much for every teacher, administrator, and student in the Bayless School District during his time working there. I am lucky to have been a friend of his and I will miss him dearly.
The Elder family send our deepest condolences. Bob was a fantastic man and a true blessing to the Bayless District. He will be greatly missed!
I worked for Bob for about a year. I came to Bayless in Feb of 2024 from Mehlville. My favorite thing about Bob is he was personable and he checked on the custodians everyday. I remember getting texts from him how are you all doing in the elementary? I talked Cardinals baseball with him as well. I will miss him. Rest in peace sir you will be missed.
I will miss him. He always checked on the custodians. I enjoyed working for him and talking to him. You will be missed.
Bob was one of a kind…. always smiling, always willing to help. He was dedicated to his family, friends, and, more importantly, to God. We mourn Bob’s passing and will miss him terribly, but celebrate with his victory in Christ.
Bob showed me nothing but kindness and respect while working with him for 5 years. A lot of what I learned from him I still apply to many different aspects of my life today. Bob was also one of the most selfless people I’ve ever meet. He would always make sure that you were doing okay and went out of his way to make sure you were. I will miss Bob very much.
I met Bob when he fixed my car, had a shop I think called Restart if memory serves me correctly. I found out he was not just fixing cars, he was helping to rebuild people. The people who needed a new, or, as we could say, a restart. I took my cars there because of Bob and that mission. Later, he transitioned to BHS and the district. That is where I learned a lot about him and his life, his family, wife, kids. I am proud to have had the chance to meet and know him. He was indeed a character at times, but, what a great addition to the party of life. I for one am thankful, thankful to have known Bob.
Bob Reeves always had a kind word when you saw him at Bayless and was always willing to help solve problems. I had the pleasure of working with Sarah at the high school which showed me that Bob and his wife Susan must be exceptionally wonderful people to have raised such a talented and caring daughter. My deepest sympathy to your entire family and know that I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts during this difficult time.
While the Bayless and Reeves families have lost a good man, heaven has gained an angel to continue to watch over us.
God grant you peace and strength as you mourn the loss of your loved one. You and your family are in my prayers.
Bob was an amazing boss, mentor, and friend for as long as I knew him. He gave me and my two older brothers a great opportunity to work at Bayless, and was an integral part of our path to adulthood. I never saw him turn someone away who was asking for help, he always found a way to be a good neighbor, often at the expense of his own schedule. Even in the depths of his illness, he agreed to be a reference on a job application for me. That pretty much sums up his attitude towards his fellow man. The lessons he taught me in the workplace and as a person are invaluable and I’ll carry them with me for the rest of my life. Gonna miss you brother.
We lost an amazing,wonderful,kind,and also gentle man. Bob always had kind words always made sure we were taken care of and always checking up on everyone. We might of lost an amazing man but be gain one kick ass rock n roll angel 😇. We love Bob ❤️
We have many fond memories of Bob. So sorry to hear of his passing.