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Kay Ruhl

In Loving Memory

Ruhl, Kay Marie (nee Kraus)

September 28, 1962 - August 8, 2023

Asleep in Jesus on Tuesday, August 8th, 2023.

Loving wife of Walter “Roy” Ruhl; devoted mother of Crystal Ruhl, Nuner Ruhl, Brad (Maggie) Leise, Rusty (Jennifer) Ruhl, Bryan (April) Leise, Dana (Derick) Ruhl, adoring grandmother of Angela Fritschle, Andrew (Mercede) Willis, Michael Ruhl, Samuel  Fritschle, Dedrick Schroepfer, David Schroepfer, Charles Fritschle, Lucas Leise, Allanah Willis, Cheyenne Leise, Amya Willis, Luna Castro, and Colton Leise; our dearest sister, aunt, cousin, and friend to many.

SERVICES: Visitation will be held at Kutis Affton Chapel (10151 Gravois Rd, St. Louis, MO 63123) on Friday,  August 11th, 2023 from 2:00 – 6:00 pm. Funeral will be held on Saturday, August 12th at 10:00 am at Salem Lutheran Church (8343 Gravois Rd, St. Louis, MO 63123). Interment at Park Lawn Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, contributions made towards achieving Kay’s cabin of her dreams are greatly appreciated.

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12 thoughts on “Ruhl, Kay Marie (nee Kraus)”

  1. You are the only woman I have ever loved. I can’t even breathe right now. I will for ever miss my honey.The kids and I will follow your dreams. I WILL SEE YOU LATER. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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  2. I’m very sad to hear you left us we didn’t get a chance to heal our differences. You will be missed you was also very loved. I hope your resting peacefully my deepest condolences to your husband n family. 🙏 hope my mother was there to greet you. Love you

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  3. You’ve left a massive hole in the family you made with your passing. This wasn’t how you were supposed to go. I wanted you to see me marry your daughter, and I wanted you to see me treat her like the angel she is. I wanted you to be my sons’ grandmother and to fill there lives with the memories they’ll now never have.

    I hope there’s a heaven, and I’m hoping you’re watching over our Dana. She still needs you.

    You are sorely missed. I love you Mom.

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  4. Your passing has left such a hole in my heart. I have no words. I know you will be sending me a sign , that you made it to momma. Crushed forever.

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  5. Our deepest condolences to the Ruhl/Leise family. We can’t imagine the shock and sadness you much feel. Kay was an amazing woman, and I know the love you all share will be with you always.

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  6. Roy, you had a very special woman. I know I don’t have to tell you that. Please know that your family holds her in our prayers.

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  7. Kay was such a lovely and caring neighbor and friend. I was so shocked to hear of her passing. I’m very sorry for your loss, but glad to know she is at peace. My deepest and warmest sympathies to you, Roy, and the rest of your family. I know there is a heaven and you will be together again. Please feel free to reach across the street if there is anything I can do for you.

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  8. You’re my lifelong friend and you have always been there. Through good times and not so good times we were always there for each other.
    I will miss our late night talks when you couldn’t sleep. Our silly “inside” jokes. Our discussions about our aches and pains, gray hair and growing old.
    Remember the meme you sent about being ghost friends? Well you better wait for me so we can be ghost friends and walk through walls and scare the crap out of people.
    I love you my sister. See you on the other side❤️❤️❤️

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  9. I love and miss you grandma. I don’t have words. I hope I make you proud. I am sorry I took you for granted. You were the best grandma I could have ever asked for. I will love you forever.

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