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Jerry Schwartz

In Loving Memory

Schwartz, Jerome Joseph

January 12, 1951 - July 11, 2025

Jerome Joseph Schwartz

Jerome “Jerry” Joseph Schwartz, born January 12, 1951, passed away Friday afternoon, July 11, 2025, at his home, surrounded by family.

Jerry is survived and missed by his loving wife of 52 years, Coleta (Quain), and his daughters Melissa (Evan Sonderegger), Kate (P.J. Brennan), and Megan (Erik Johnson). Forever cherished and remembered by his six grandchildren, Nora Sonderegger, Jude Brennan, and Lorelai, Isabella, Gabriel and Michael Johnson. His memory lives on with his surviving family, including his brothers Ron (Tony), Don (Rose), Leo (Kathy), sister-in-law Connie Schwartz, and his many nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his father Leo G. Schwartz, mother Matilda L. Heimos Schwartz, and twin brother, Ken.

Jerry was born and raised in St. Louis the third of five boys and the oldest in the second set of twins born to Leo and Matilda. Growing up on Christopher Drive in Oakville Jerry enjoyed being outdoors and spent many hours causing trouble with his brothers. Jerry met the love of his life, Coleta, in 1970, and they were married on June 30, 1973, at St. Andrew’s Catholic Church in St. Louis.

A master hospital mechanic at Lutheran Hospital (later known as St. Alexius) for over 40 years, Jerry was a mainstay who knew every inch of the complex and could fix anything from the heating and cooling to a simple light switch. Jerry built many friendships at the hospital and remained there until his retirement in March 2020.

Jerry was a skilled craftsman and avid gardner who prided himself on being detail oriented and organized. He never missed an opportunity to teach others and loved to consult on home projects. From teaching proper painting techniques, to hanging dry wall, to electrical work, he guided all his daughters and sons-in-law on their home repairs. And when he could not be there in person, Jerry was always up to give his advice over a video call. Jerry would never make you feel bad if you needed help – he would gently tell you the “right” way to do it, and provide notes so you do it correctly…or he would offer you a beer and just fix it himself when you weren’t looking.

Jerry believed in treating others with kindness and respect. A core tenet of his life was to use his talents to help others. And he did just that, whether as a volunteer with Rebuilding Together or helping his friends (and friends of friends), he was always willing to use his expertise to improve the lives of others.

Jerry was a dedicated father teaching his daughters how to change a tire and their attitudes when those needed adjusting as well. He was always there for you with an ear and equal doses of wit and wisdom.

A doting Grandpa, he delighted in spending time with his six grandchildren, building forts, castles, crafts and always lots of laughs. The job of Grandpa was Jerry’s favorite, and most important.

A celebration of Jerry’s life will be conducted Saturday, July 26, 2025 at Kutis Affton Chapel, 10151 Gravois Road, St. Louis, MO 63123. The family will receive friends from 10:00 am until 12:00 p.m., concluding with a short service at the funeral home. Contributions in his memory may be made to the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation or the American Cancer Society.

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6 thoughts on “Schwartz, Jerome Joseph”

  1. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Coleta, Melissa, Kate, Megan and your families. Jerry was one very special guy… everything written here is all that and more. He would be the first one to help a friend or family member in need. He had a quick wit, and a ready with a smile. It’s an honor to have known him. Gone too soon, but never forgotten. May all your wonderful memories bring you comfort.

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  2. “And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.”
    Revelations 21:4

    07/16/25
    To the Family of Jerry Schwartz,
    Bowing in humble submission to the sovereign will of God, we offer our sincere sympathy, love, and concern in the passing of your loved one, Jerry Schwartz, an amazing father, grandfather, husband, and friend.
    At times like these, words cannot express our deepest sympathy. Therefore, we place you in the omnipotent hands of a loving God that He may bear your grief and pain. God knows how to love in every situation. Trust Him to be your provision of peace and comfort.
    Our prayer is that God will uphold and sustain you during this time of loss. God has promised never to leave nor forsake you, and He always honors his word. May the blessings of the Lord be upon you and give you Grace in a time of need.
    We pray and hope that, in some small way, this resolution will be an inspiration, encouragement, and consolation to you and your family. May God forever bless and keep you is our prayer.

    Lovingly Submitted,
    Glenda Nelson and Langhston Mimms
    The Revs. Bernard and Brenda Nelson

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  3. Dear Coleta and Family,

    Our hearts are sadden on the passing of Jerry. He was a master of many trades, but a special gift he had was his friendship and kindness. We were truly blessed to have known him and have him in our lives.

    Praying your family consoles one another and finds comfort with all the wonderful memories that you share together.

    May God grant Jerry eternal rest in peace.

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  4. Melissa and Kate,
    I am sending my prayers during this time of mourning. I miss you both. I am sorry that I can’t be there on Saturday, but I will be with you in my thoughts and prayers.
    Much love to you and your family,
    Linda Paglusch

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