Mary June Costa (nee Benoist), age 67, of Kirkwood, Missouri passed away peacefully on October 17th, surrounded by the love of her family.
Mary was preceded in death by her parents, George and Elizabeth Benoist and brothers George and Jack Benoist.
Born on January 4th, 1958, Mary was a devoted wife to Joe Costa; beloved mother to Jamie (Tim) Redington and Michael (Kelly) Welch. Proud and cherished Granny to Vivian and Delilah Redington. Loving sister to Larry (Therese) Benoist, Dan (Laura) Benoist, Beth Jurgensen, Barb (Tom) Buschmann, Dave (Jenny) Benoist, Jim (Mary) Benoist, Jill Munsell, Don (Sue) Benoist, Donna Ruemker, Frank Benoist, Joyce (Pat) Poston, Pierre (Kathy) Benoist.
Adoring Junie to Elizabeth Bannister, Bridget Poston, Tracy (Stan) Brandmeyer, Dana (Mike) Wood, Joe (Charlotte) Costa, Tony Costa, JD Brandmeyer, Sanli Woodward, Chase Smith, Alex Smith, Rachel Vester, Joey Marvel, Will Smith, 32 nieces and nephews, 36 great nieces and nephews and many friends.
Family was the true center of Junie’s world — the source of her greatest pride, joy, and purpose. She embraced every role she held with deep love and devotion: a cherished wife, a nurturing mother, a proud and doting Granny, and a loyal sister. Nothing brought her more happiness than being surrounded by the people she loved most. Her granddaughters, Vivian and Delilah, were the light of her life — her heart’s delight and constant source of inspiration. Their laughter and presence filled her days with immeasurable joy.
Junie also shared an unbreakable bond with her beloved sister and best friend, Joyce. Their time together was filled with love, laughter, and the kind of deep connection that only sisters can understand. Their relationship was a constant reminder of the strength and beauty of sisterhood. For Junie, family wasn’t just important — it was everything.
Her kindness, compassion, and unconditional love were unmatched. She lived a life of putting others first, always thinking about how she could help or give – never about what she might get in return. She was strong, selfless, generous, funny, happy, determined and always on the go. She brought so much joy and fun to everyone around her.
SERVICES: Visitation at Kutis Affton Chapel, 10151 Gravois, St. Louis, MO 63123 on Friday, October 24th from 3-8. A funeral mass for Mary will be held on Saturday, October 25th at 10 AM at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, 4200 Delor Street, St. Louis, MO 63116. Burial to follow at Resurrection Cemetery, 6901 Mackenzie Rd, St. Louis, MO 63123.
The family kindly asks that you wear pink, Junie’s favorite color.
In lieu of flowers, donations to the American Cancer Society are appreciated.
Jamie, Mike & Joyce
Spoke to your Mom/Sister at the ck in at theDr. office in the past few years. She always spoke of you all with smile and that you all kept her busy.
She played soccer with us outdoor in high school and Indoor mixed League later on.
She was the best Goalie and always there for a great laugh.
Very sorry to hear this news. Keep her memories and smile in your hearts each day
Thinking of you all.
I grew up with the Benoist family… A living g legend. If one had good day, the whole family had a good day. Mary June took control by always making sure the family was safe. She will be missed by all. Our deepest sympathy to Jim and the entire family.
Jamie, and Joyce were colleagues, and became friends of mine at Liberty Mutual. I met Mrs. Mary at the many outings we had. My memory is to watch how she loved her family. Her daughter, sister, and her grandkids. She was always there. J, I am so sorry for your loss. Heaven gained am angel. I’m praying for you all.
I remember when the Benoist family moved to the south side. I could walk a block over and have a street hockey game because there was so many of them. I knew Mary very well because I hung with her twin brother Jim. If I remember correctly, Mary never had a bad word for anyone unless you crossed her path. Condolences to the whole Benoist family. May she rest in peace.
Junebug was the best piano player Southside. I send my condolences to her brothers Dave and Jim whom I was close to in the early years. May she rest in peace and her smile be remembered.
I met Mary June in the 70’s. We worked downtown, partied everywhere, played softball, went shopping for the whole family. We just had a blast, how could you not with Mary June!! I would run into her ever so often in Fenton, it was as if no time had passed between us. Fond Memories
Love you Mary June
Rest in Our Lord’s loving arms😇
Our legacy is not in the title we earned or the fortune we saved.
It is in the smiles we encouraged and the memories left behind.
My prayers are with all who will miss Mary June. May she rest in heaven…
So sorry many memories of Mary June
Mary was truly an amazing person and I will miss her so much. She always made me laugh coming in for her visits and heaven gained an angel 👼
To Beth Jurgensen: So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.
I grew up with the Benoist family, a wonderful close family.
I send my deepest condolences to the entire family. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
I met Mary at my first medical job right out of school. She was 20 yrs my senior but was always willing to show me the ropes. We worked together off and on for over 25 yrs. She was always smiling, had great attitude, and living her best life with her family and friends. She will be missed and my deep sorrow and regret to her family.
Recently ran into Mary June at St. Joan of Arc school picnic. Shared a table with her, Joe, Chrissy, Kimmy, Michael, Liz , myself and a few first graders. Later on Joyce and her family joined us too. We laughed till we cried that day. We shared a pretzel, funnel cake and picnic junk food! Mary June ran out to get herself a snow cone in a cup. Never saw her so happy as when she returned to the table with it! We all walked multiple times in the cake walk. We were cracking ourselves up but not winning anything! This is the day that I will remember her by! Rest in peace pretty lady! ♥️
For Beth Jurgenson and family
I remember Mary June being friendly and very active. She loved to be involved! I know she loved her kids and especially her grandchildren. God bless her soul and all of her family ❤