Dear father of Steve (Lauren) Muelken and Lauren (Casey) Murphy. Dear grandfather of Laura, Lucy, Charlie and Zack. Dear brother of Carol (Stan) Boessen. Dear uncle of Cole (Cheryl) Boessen and Lindsay (Ryan) Griffin.
Curt, or Curtie as friends called him, lived a full life with family and friends. Curt spent his career as a salesman and was known around the office as focused and friendly to all. His customers considered him as much a friend as they did a provider that they knew they could depend on whenever needed. He left behind a legacy of success and lifelong connections.
Curt’s friends and family knew him as someone who loved to have a great time with all. Curt was a member of several friend groups and could be found on weekends laughing and dancing the night away. Curt famously talked about his favorite outing, his annual float trip, and invited all to come and join the fun.
If you had the pleasure of being invited to Curt’s home, not only would you find it legendarily organized and clean, but you would also be introduced to his favorite possession – his hot tub. Many of Curt’s guests found themselves in the hot tub sharing laughs and stories and maybe a “Man Soda” or two. At home, Curt’s TV was tuned to the St. Louis sports scene. He loved the Cardinals, Blues, and Rams and sports radio often echoed throughout his home.
Most of all, Curt will be missed by his family. Curt always made it a priority to call and visit his loved ones and keep the good times rolling. Curt considered many of his friends as family and every year his family grew. His passing saddens many, but his family all knows with Curt, a man of faith, the party still continues.
SERVICES: A memorial will be held on Friday, August 15th at 2:30 p.m. at Prince of Peace Lutheran Church (8646 New Sappington Rd, Saint Louis, MO 63126). A celebration of life will be held at a later date.
Curt was a wonderful man and friend. He would have done anything for his friends and will be greatly missed. The gym and outdoor concerts will not. E the same without him
Loved dancing with Curt and being around someone who loved life as much as he did… he brought the feel good vibes with him wherever he went. I am sorry this was the end for you Curt. We all have to go, but this was way too soon for you my friend.
Curt was a good guy. I always enjoyed seeing and speaking with him. My condolences to his family and friends.
The man that Curt was and is, was positive, open, and you were immediately a friend. While I never danced with him, I danced at the same time at Meetup events. When he found out about my health issue, he would come up to me and discuss how I was doing. Kindness, smiles, strong are words that come to me when I think of Curt. I could imagine Curt saying something like this: “This is not a ploy to avoid creditors or old girlfriends.” Curt, we will miss you.
Curt was one of the hest, sincere, thoughtful, and really caring. He will surely be thought of at every dance.
My friend, my dance partner and definitely my partner in FUN. I miss you already, the laughs and the tender moments. Thanks for being a golden thread in the tapestry of life on earth. We’ll meet in the field my friend. Hugs!
Curt was the most thoughtful and caring of others. Dancing, socializing and his smile wull be foundly remembered of him. I know he’s comfortable now and so aorry of the family’s loss. May God be your comfort and love to keep you strong.
I always called Curt my little brother. His smile was contagious. Full of life. Always wanting to help. He had so many friends. We will miss him so much 😢
Wow – Curt was amazing, upbeat, full of life and always the first one on the dance floor. He was always welcoming & there for me when I went through a tough time. One of his favorite bands was Rock Opera. I know that I will think of him whenever I hear that band or dance to their music. He will certainly be missed not only by me but many others.
I met Curt through West County Singles. He was always smiling and ready for a good time. He kept us moving on the dance floor and made sure we enjoyed ourselves. He and I have grandsons of the same age and we would compare photos of them regularly. He will be greatly missed. Sadly, another good soul gone way to soon. Be at peace Curt.
A couple years ago at GreenTree in Kirkwood, Curt and a friend needed a ride to their car. As we were driving them, the usual st Louis -which-high-school was exchanged; Curt and my friend discovered their common roots in hockey – a rapid fire hootin/hollerin memory lane of specific seasons, tournaments, winning shots and who punched who ensued; Curt and my friend parted as bro besties having met just 10 minutes earlier. Curt was/is the best and he will be missed.
We will forever remember Kurt as a warm and welcoming soul, a wonderful man and friend. His infectious energy on the dance floor lit up every gathering. He always had a warm greeting for everyone, making them feel like they belonged. Sending my heartfelt condolences to his family.
Curt will be profoundly missed.
Curt was a great guy and friend. We referred to each other as Bestie cause we were best friends. He was my dancing buddy who loved to go to outside concerts, listen to live bands, go to wineries and DANCE DANCE DANCE. He was one of a kind and such a gentleman always taking care of his ladies. He opened our doors, drove us to various events and always checked to make sure we got home safely. I miss him dearly but I know he is now listening to his music especially his 2 favorite songs ‘Shut Up and Dance’ and ‘Tennessee Whiskey ‘ and of course DANCING!! Luv and miss you buddy! Please save me a dance….
Curt, you certainly were one of a kind….simply the best! You were a wonderful, caring friend to so many, always full of life and energy. We will cherish our special memories of all the fun times we had together. I’m grateful I was one of your “ladies”. I miss you and I know when my birthday rolls around, I will especially miss my annual Elvis birthday song from you. Dance on, my friend!
For me, Curt represents my life after divorce. The first time I met Curt was at West County Singles in 1999. I’ve known him longer than I’ve known Ron. I’ll never forget meeting him though. He had a bunch of ladies gathered around taking care of him. The reason he needed them was that he had two broken heels! I’d never heard of anyone breaking their heels before but there he was. He explained that he had jumped over a fence trying to save some beer and broke both heels doing so. The divorced and widowed ladies were only too happy to take care of the injured single male in the group. It wasn’t just that he was single, it was that he was clearly a person who drew other people to him. No one loved a party more than Curt! I’m a very extroverted person but even I am nowhere near as extroverted as Curt. He brings the party! So knowing him, really uplifted me after my divorce and marriage of 29 years.
I ended up marrying Ron, who was not part of WCS. But he married me, bought me a waterfront house in LSL and a boat. Curt loved the water as much as I did. Curt has been my boating, swimming, hot-tub, and dancing buddy for 25 years! He’s also helped me clean the boat more times than I can count. He even knows my grandchildren, especially Corinne, and my neighbors, especially Camilla. Over the years, we have shared so many adventures on the lake, concerts here and everywhere, and even many vacations. I’ll never be able to be on the boat, swim in the lake, get in the hot tub, go to a concert or drink a margarita without thinking of Curt.
He is a memorable person for me and I guess that’s the most any of us can ever hope for…that we mattered. He definitely did! ❤️
So many memories of doing events with Curt ! WCS dances, Friday nite meet-ups at various places all over the St Louis county area, Kathy’s pool party’s, football game get togethers,
and soooo many “crew” events with Rev Ray/Charlotte, Kathy/Tim, Teresa/Dennis, Ron/Diane and Deb & me.
Well Dilly-Dilly, you are in a much better place and I’m sure you are dancing all the time—-you will be missed my friend !😢
Bob & Deb
One of my best friends for over 25 years.
Lived life to the fullest and gave new meaning to “freestyle” dancing !
So sad to see this. Curt was a pleasure to be around. Always smiling and fun to dance with. Condolences to his family.
Curt was the best friend and neighbor we could have ever had. He was so full of life and lived it to the fullest. He always had a story to tell about his most recent outing!! He will be truly missed.
I’ve known Curt since I was kid because he was really good friends with my grandma. He was my favorite of her friends (and they’re all pretty awesome). He was fun loving, upbeat, and always a joy to have around! He will be truly missed.
Curt had one of the best hearts! I will miss him and our every other week Amigo Joes lunches. He would bring a little sticky note with him sometimes with things written down that he didn’t want to forget to tell me about, or talk to me about. He always just wanted to have fun! He was my Austin Powers at my Goldmember 50th birthday party, and you know he was awesome at it <3 miss you Curt!!!
Lori, can you email me?
Diane
PS I am so sorry that I cannot come on Aug 15th!! We are moving my step daughter into MO State that day at that exact time!!! Prayers and hugs to all of his family and friends
Curt was a good friend & a good person. He was a bundle of energy. He loved his music & his crazy dancing. He always took care of his lady friends. He was a gentleman for sure. I loved his Elvis version of ”Happy Birthday “He’s probably singing in Heaven right now. I will miss him. He was one of a kind. Rest in Peace Curt……
I had the pleasure of working with Curt from 2006 until he retired. Over the years, we saw countless photos of his kids, grandkids—and his beloved dog—back when everything was still in print. Curt loved sharing his family with us; his desk was always filled with pictures and mementos. He was very sentimental and incredibly proud of you all.
If there’s one thing Curt left us with, it’s the example of a life lived with passion and an unwavering loyalty to those he loved.
Thank you for being a friend, Curt. You will not be forgotten. Shawn
R.I.P. My Brother
I (We) enjoyed getting to know Curt – although having only known him for about 4 years, his great attitude, kindness, humor & love of life and having fun were so evident to everyone around him. He certainly could light up a room or event. It is with great humility that I encourage & hope everyone who knew him takes a moment to be kinder, more generous in smiling/spirit or saying hello, if just for 5 minutes of your day… or better yet, “shut up and dance [song ref. if you know you know] with someone you know or care about”! Much Love to all of Curt’s many family & friends! <3