Paul entered into Jesus’ loving arms on Tuesday, December 9, 2025, at the age of 65. Treasured husband of Carol Schleicher (nee Flieg) for over 38 years. Loving father to Megan (Kevin) and Brendan (Megan). Paw Paw to 5 beautiful grandchildren: Tate, Poppy, Hailey, Madison, and Riley. Brother to Mike (Tiggerr), Mark (Jodi), Susan, Jane (Norb) and Matt (Michelle). Friend to many (you know who you are.)
Paul loved being with his family, especially his grandchildren. They made him the happiest Paw Paw (some might even say he was the funniest Paw Paw as well.) They will most miss his hugs, silly games, after school pickups (with snacks, of course) and trips to the playground. While he most certainly did not enjoy garage sales and antiquing, he could often be found at one as the chauffeur and shopping buddy to Carol. He did, however, thoroughly enjoy a good Costco outing or short out of town trip, visiting new breweries or restaurants (and was always sure to ask the waitress what their favorite item on the menu was.) But his favorites were always eating wings, BBQ and almost anything chocolatey. We liked to joke with him about his 30 second showers, being a fun sucker and getting his prime getaway spot.
Paul enjoyed his friendships; from his lifelong friends, years with the Rookies softball team to newer ones. He was always up to help whenever and with whatever was needed. He loved to volunteer at church and to lead bible study. He fondly talked about his trips to Bent Creek for golf and Broussards. He loved talking about his favorite sports teams and has been a lifelong Blues fan. Paul would have loved for anyone attending to wear Blues attire to the service, if you would like.
The funeral is planned for Saturday, December 20, 2025 at White Flag Church 7531 Telegraph Road St. Louis, MO 63129. Visitation is from 9am until the service at 11am. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Micah Project Honduras or Blues for Kids Charitable Trust. By Kutis South County Chapel.
Sending prayers and love to Paul’s family and friends during this difficult time.
I have known Paul for at least 55 years and I never once saw him angry or in a bad mood, even in these last few years. He always had a smile on his face and was a fun guy to be around. I am proud to say I was a Rookie teammate of his for many years and those days have provided me with a lifetime of great memories. Rest in peace Paul, you will be missed.
I worked with Paul for years. I am very sorry to see this. Prayers to Carol and the rest of the family.
Paul was so very helpful to me while I worked over the phone with him at SSM. He was so sweet and patient. The world is a better place because Paul was here. Blessings to your family in this time of loss
Paul Schleicher was one of the most genuine people you could ever meet. He was bold, honest, and unafraid to speak his mind—even when doing so might hurt your feelings. Paul believed in truth, clarity, and standing behind his convictions, and he offered his opinions openly no matter who was in the room or how many people were present.
Paul was deeply admired by everyone who worked with him. He began a new career after the age of 50 working part-time at the ground level, but he knew exactly where he wanted to go. With determination and a clear plan, Paul worked his way forward and achieved the success he set out to reach. His talent and skill were undeniable, especially when it came to building relationships. Paul’s greatest strength was his ability to connect—with customers, colleagues, supply partners, and leaders at every level of an organization.
During his time working for a large healthcare system, Paul was instrumental in building, launching, and operating a very large consolidated service center that proved to be wildly successful. In his performance reviews, Paul was consistently told that he made a noticeable positive difference in a $10 billion annual revenue organization. Truer words were never spoken, and very few people can say they left that kind of impact.
Paul was unique in countless ways. If you met Paul, you remembered him—he made an impression. He was the kind of person people admired and wanted to be more like. He set an example that others tried to follow, not because he asked them to, but because of the way he lived and worked.
Family and faith were always Paul’s top priorities. He also had an incredible number of friends and a heart for helping others. Many people have shared stories of how Paul helped them personally or professionally, often at moments when they needed it most. Paul was one of the most giving people one could know.
I loved Paul and considered him one of the best friends I ever had. I will always consider Paul family. During our time working together, we went through a lot, accomplished a great deal, and endured some extremely difficult moments. No matter what life brought our way, I always felt we could survive and come out better knowing Paul was by my side.
I am both blessed and honored to have known Paul, worked with him, and called him my friend. His legacy lives on in the people he helped, the lives he touched, and the example he set. Paul Schleicher made a difference—and he will never be forgotten.
Dear Matt, I’m sorry I never had the opportunity to meet your brother., but he sounds like quite a loving, caring individual. You two share many of the same qualities, my friend.
My deepest and sincerest sympathy to you and your family in this difficult time. It’s mine turn to be here for you, Matt.
Paul accompanied me as my groomsman when my sister Helen and Paul’s Rookie Teammate John were married. He was extremely kind and a fun guy to be around. I was delighted he remembered me years later. My deepest sympathy to Carol and all who loved Paul.