Paul entered into Jesus’ loving arms on Tuesday, December 9, 2025, at the age of 65. Treasured husband of Carol Schleicher (nee Flieg) for over 38 years. Loving father to Megan (Kevin) and Brendan (Megan). Paw Paw to 5 beautiful grandchildren: Tate, Poppy, Hailey, Madison, and Riley. Brother to Mike (Tiggerr), Mark (Jodi), Susan, Jane (Norb) and Matt (Michelle). Friend to many (you know who you are.)
Paul loved being with his family, especially his grandchildren. They made him the happiest Paw Paw (some might even say he was the funniest Paw Paw as well.) They will most miss his hugs, silly games, after school pickups (with snacks, of course) and trips to the playground. While he most certainly did not enjoy garage sales and antiquing, he could often be found at one as the chauffeur and shopping buddy to Carol. He did, however, thoroughly enjoy a good Costco outing or short out of town trip, visiting new breweries or restaurants (and was always sure to ask the waitress what their favorite item on the menu was.) But his favorites were always eating wings, BBQ and almost anything chocolatey. We liked to joke with him about his 30 second showers, being a fun sucker and getting his prime getaway spot.
Paul enjoyed his friendships; from his lifelong friends, years with the Rookies softball team to newer ones. He was always up to help whenever and with whatever was needed. He loved to volunteer at church and to lead bible study. He fondly talked about his trips to Bent Creek for golf and Broussards. He loved talking about his favorite sports teams and has been a lifelong Blues fan. Paul would have loved for anyone attending to wear Blues attire to the service, if you would like.
The funeral is planned for Saturday, December 20, 2025 at White Flag Church 7531 Telegraph Road St. Louis, MO 63129. Visitation is from 9am until the service at 11am. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Micah Project Honduras or Blues for Kids Charitable Trust. By Kutis South County Chapel.
Sending prayers and love to Paul’s family and friends during this difficult time.
Carol and family,
We were so blessed to have known Paul all these years. There wasn’t a time that I didn’t see him with a smile on his face, a hug ready to give and a heart full of faith. The love for his family and friends was always present. Prayers for all of you at this time.
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I have known Paul for at least 55 years and I never once saw him angry or in a bad mood, even in these last few years. He always had a smile on his face and was a fun guy to be around. I am proud to say I was a Rookie teammate of his for many years and those days have provided me with a lifetime of great memories. Rest in peace Paul, you will be missed.
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I worked with Paul for years. I am very sorry to see this. Prayers to Carol and the rest of the family.
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Paul was so very helpful to me while I worked over the phone with him at SSM. He was so sweet and patient. The world is a better place because Paul was here. Blessings to your family in this time of loss
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Paul Schleicher was one of the most genuine people you could ever meet. He was bold, honest, and unafraid to speak his mind—even when doing so might hurt your feelings. Paul believed in truth, clarity, and standing behind his convictions, and he offered his opinions openly no matter who was in the room or how many people were present.
Paul was deeply admired by everyone who worked with him. He began a new career after the age of 50 working part-time at the ground level, but he knew exactly where he wanted to go. With determination and a clear plan, Paul worked his way forward and achieved the success he set out to reach. His talent and skill were undeniable, especially when it came to building relationships. Paul’s greatest strength was his ability to connect—with customers, colleagues, supply partners, and leaders at every level of an organization.
During his time working for a large healthcare system, Paul was instrumental in building, launching, and operating a very large consolidated service center that proved to be wildly successful. In his performance reviews, Paul was consistently told that he made a noticeable positive difference in a $10 billion annual revenue organization. Truer words were never spoken, and very few people can say they left that kind of impact.
Paul was unique in countless ways. If you met Paul, you remembered him—he made an impression. He was the kind of person people admired and wanted to be more like. He set an example that others tried to follow, not because he asked them to, but because of the way he lived and worked.
Family and faith were always Paul’s top priorities. He also had an incredible number of friends and a heart for helping others. Many people have shared stories of how Paul helped them personally or professionally, often at moments when they needed it most. Paul was one of the most giving people one could know.
I loved Paul and considered him one of the best friends I ever had. I will always consider Paul family. During our time working together, we went through a lot, accomplished a great deal, and endured some extremely difficult moments. No matter what life brought our way, I always felt we could survive and come out better knowing Paul was by my side.
I am both blessed and honored to have known Paul, worked with him, and called him my friend. His legacy lives on in the people he helped, the lives he touched, and the example he set. Paul Schleicher made a difference—and he will never be forgotten.
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Dear Matt, I’m sorry I never had the opportunity to meet your brother., but he sounds like quite a loving, caring individual. You two share many of the same qualities, my friend.
My deepest and sincerest sympathy to you and your family in this difficult time. It’s mine turn to be here for you, Matt.
Thank you Norm
Paul accompanied me as my groomsman when my sister Helen and Paul’s Rookie Teammate John were married. He was extremely kind and a fun guy to be around. I was delighted he remembered me years later. My deepest sympathy to Carol and all who loved Paul.
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My family and I knew Paul from Redeemer Church! I am so sorry for your loss and I will pray for Carol and your whole family! What a joyous and faithful Christian was Paul! Every time you talked to Paul, he made you feel that he genuinely cared about you! He was devoted to his family and his church family! We will greatly miss Paul and we pray that God helps you through every moment of your grief! He was such a great person! We send you our deepest thoughts and prayers!
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I was so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. I knew Paul from Redeemer Church. He was such a kind person and was always there to lend a hand or an ear. He was genuine and was truly interested in what you had to say. I attended Bible studies that he led and it was always nice to see him and Carol back at Redeemer for trivia nights. Paul was always full of joy. I will miss his smile and laugh. Prayers for Carol and the entire family! I pray that God bring you all comfort and peace and wrap his loving arms around you during this difficult time.
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I worked with Paul and the Supply Chain team at SSM for 5 years as a consultant. Paul was always courteous and willing to assist me. His demeanor was cheerful and I enjoyed his sense of humor. I pray that his family and friends will feel the “peace that passes all understanding” during this time.
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My condolences go out to Carol and the Family! Paul was a very good friend and Co-worker. He was always there for you if you needed him; A Prayer, hug or a listening ear! We had a brother…sister relationship and it made our days at work entertaining. Paul always talked about his family and how much he loved them all!
His face would just light up when chatting about his wife Carol, the children and grand-children. I will miss my friend very much. His love for God was a blessing to all those that knew him…thank you Paul for all the joy and moments that we shared together. God Bless
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Carol,
Rest assured you and your families are in many thoughts and prayers now and going forward. Paul was truly loved by everyone he came in contact with. I met Paul back in the 1970’s via Long School ‘rec’ summers playing softball. Of course that trended into the Rookie experience. Paul fit right in with the team from the get go–literally and figuratively. His usual spot in the lineup was right smack in the middle—5 guys in front of and 5 guys behind him—meshing right in the heart of the team!! He always seemed to be smiling and laughing—causing all else to do likewise. He will be dearly missed. May he rest in peace.
John Amsler
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I’ve known Paul for over 40 years through his brother, Mark. When thinking about him the first thought that comes to mind is, this was a quality man. One of honestly and integrity. Always there for his family and friends. I’m sure he had faults, we all do but I never saw them. He will be missed by all who knew him.
Mark M. Elder
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We were so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. It was a pleasure to get to know the both of you when Dan and Paul worked together at Sun Chemical. Dan and and I are glad that we had the opportunity to reconnect with you and Paul since losing touch after the plant closure.
Appreciate all the years you had with Paul and enjoy the BIG family the two of you created. And know that Paul will be watching over ALL of you.
Carol & Family,
When you have a great man in your life, as Paul was, you’re going to have great loss. For that, I am heartbroken for all of you. I pray it brings you comfort knowing how loved he was.
We are blessed to have met Paul and Carol on their first days at White Flag and becoming close friends. Paul’s humor and transparency made it easy to be around him.
Paul was a good friend and a strong leader of our Bible Study group, which he was so passionate about. Even when Paul wasn’t feeling well he always pushed through to lead our study – Oh the rabbit holes he’d pull us out of.
Paul always thought about others even when he was very sick and exhausted he always would ask how others were doing, how they feel, if there’s anything he could do for you, what an amazing person he was to everyone he came into contact with. This included strangers, whenever we were out to eat Paul would ask the waitress how they were doing, would remember each and everyone’s name.
If you spent any amount of time with Paul it was evident he loved the Lord and he wanted that for everyone. He was a true disciple who will be greatly missed.
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Carol and Family,
My condolences to you on Paul’s passing. It truly saddens my heart as Paul was a kind, gentle and caring human, characteristics that could use a resurgence these days. I realize this is a hard time for you all, but know that he is in a better place, free of the discomforts he experienced during his time on Earth.
I worked with Paul over the phone at SSM and then got to know him better when working in person with him for 8 years. He had a great sense of humor and also a serious side, when needed. Always enjoyed talking with him about our families, especially grandchildren, music, and many other topics. Paul was one of a small group of friends who visited me in the hospital during my transplant and he/they have no idea how much that was appreciated, even though I told them. Just another example of the caring person he was.
Paul will be missed greatly, but not forgotten by the many peoples lives he had an impact on, whether they knew it or not.
I hope you find peace in knowing he now is enjoying himself in the hands of God and the rewards of Heaven.
Carol & Family,
Our prayers continue to be lifted up for you during this most difficult time and great loss. What an amazing man and friend to us all. Paul was a true gift from God!
It was an honor to know him and to serve with him at White Flag. He was a fighter. He served and loved to the very end. He was an amazing example for us all. Paul loved and cherished his family, he loved his church, and most of all he loved and trusted God; with his health, his life, his heart, his soul, and with his eternity.
I will miss our occasional mornings getting a bite to eat at Breakfast & Burgers. But I will always remember how Paul was a man that was more alive when he was dying, and only because of God’s love and power in his life.
We can only imagine how Paul felt when God said to him, “Welcome home good and faithful servant!”
I’m so sorry for your loss praying for your peace and comfort during this difficult time.