Paul Albert Nolting passed away peacefully in his home on Sunday, January 25, 2026, at the age of 85. Beloved husband for 41 years of Jan “Granny” Nolting; devoted father of Tracie (Guy) Ehlert, Jeffrey Nolting (d. 1987), and Juli Dempewolf; cherished grandfather, best known as “Papa”, to Lindsay (Chris) Moseley and Jordan (Kent) Skiles; adored great grandfather to Marleau Moseley, Mac Moseley, Miller “Moon” Moseley, and Ford Skiles; dearest friend to many.
He was born in St. Louis, MO on March 9, 1940, to his father and mother Clarence and Juanita Nolting, their only son. He grew up in Maplewood, MO where he attended Maplewood Richmond Heights. After losing his mother at a very young age, he spent time living with his grandmother, working many different jobs before enlisting in the Army at age 18. He spent some time in college before becoming a St. Louis City police officer and starting a family of his own.
Paul was a man who never sat still – too much life to live and too many places to see. A natural explorer, always chasing the next adventure near the water, the next campsite under the stars. He loved the outdoors deeply, finding peace in nature, joy in camping and fishing, and constant companionship in his beloved dogs over the years. He was a devoted St. Louis Blues and Cardinals fan, he never missed a game – listening on the radio, watching on the television, but mostly in person, with a Budweiser in hand.
Above all else, he loved his grandchildren. They were his pride, his laughter, and his greatest joy. Whether it was a dance recital, soccer game, or school show, Papa and Granny were there to see it all. And every Christmas, without fail, he was the one who put the joy in the season. He didn’t just celebrate Christmas – he created it. The warmth, the magic, the laughter, and the memories will live on in every tradition and every gathering filled with love. Time spent with family was his favorite place to be, and they will forever carry his stories (hundreds), his humor, and his adventurous spirit with them.
He was a man who did everything he wanted to do, fully and without regret. He lived boldly, generously, and on his own terms. He was a friend to more people than can be counted – someone who made others feel welcome, included, and at home wherever he went. A great-grandfather, adventurer, dog lover, storyteller, and friend – his life was full, his heart was bigger, and his presence will be deeply missed. Though he may be gone, the joy he gave so freely will remain with us always.
A visitation for Paul is planned for Thursday, January 29, 2026, from 10:00am to 1:00pm, followed by a short service. The visitation and service will be held at Kutis Funeral Home, 10151 Gravois Rd, St. Louis, MO. All are invited to attend. The burial at Sunset Cemetery will immediately follow.