Sue Eagan Ohlendorf passed away peacefully on June 25, 2025, surrounded by her loving family. She was the devoted wife for 54 beautiful years, a partnership built on deep love, laughter, and unwavering support.
Throughout her life, Sue poured her heart into her family and community. She was a tireless supporter of her children and grandchildren, never missing a game, swim practice, or school event. She especially loved coaching the children in volleyball and basketball, where her encouragement and enthusiasm shaped our children’s lives and other young lives both on and off the field.
An adventurous spirit, Sue found joy in travel. Whether it was a cross-country road trip or a spontaneous weekend getaway, she cherished every journey as an opportunity to explore new places. She especially enjoyed our family vacations, trips to Europe, Australia, Brazil and the Bahamas. Sue looked forward to spending our winters in Florida, as spending time on the beach was total enjoyment for her. She was always ready to go on a cruise which included cruises from London, England to Barcelona, Spain even cruising the bottom of the Grand Canyon on the Colorado River.
She will be remembered for her kindness, energy, and the way she made everyone happy. Her legacy lives on in the hearts of all who were lucky enough to know her. You might even have run into her at a casino or a 5-card poker tournament. Sue really enjoyed teaching people how to play Blackjack or any other casino card game.
Sue was the co-founder of the St. Louis County Parks Foundation.
She is survived by her loving husband Mark, beloved mother to Kevin (Pam) Ohlendorf, Amy (Darin) Eakle, Stacy (Todd) Hartzog, and Sarah. Loving Grandmother to Ben (Alexis), Abby (Christopher) Eric, Andrew, Lindsey, Paige, Shelby, TJ and Kara. Dear Great Grandmother to Reagan. She will be deeply missed by all.
Visitation at Kutis Affton Chapel, 10151 Gravois, on Monday June 30, 4 – 7:00 PM. Funeral from Kutis Affton Chapel on Tuesday July 1, 9:30 AM to St. Justin Martyr Catholic Church for 10:00 AM Mass. Interment Sunset Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to The St. Louis County Parks Foundation. STLCPF.ORG
“I lived my life so that everyone would cry at my funeral”
Oh..Mark and family. So sorry to hear about all of you losing a great Wife,Mother, Grandma and friend. Sue was so much fun especially at the “tables” we were so lucky to have known her and you will be in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you Mark. Love our friendship. Don and Philean
She was one of the most wonderful woman I’ve ever met. Kind, giving, and one terrific mom, grandmother, great grandmother, and friend. Our deepest condolences.
Sue was such a special woman – kind, joyful, and always a pleasure to be around. I’ll never forget the time we went to the casino together to play blackjack – she absolutely lit up! Her love for her family was so evident, and I know how much you all meant to her. She will be truly missed.
So sorry to hear about Sue. We had some good times. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and family.
Sue was a delight! Her greatest joy was her family and I know you will miss her terribly. Cherish the memories you have, and know that she will always be with you. My prayers are with you all.
The obituary absolutely nailed the life and spirit of Sue. We are so blessed to have known such a wonderful person.
Kevin & Pam and family:
Please accept our condolences. We remember how generous grandma Ohlendorf was when Ben and Mark were in grade school. We are out-of-town next week but will be thinking of all of you
Love,
Dan & Laurie Cerutti & Allie & Mark
She was a super person . Mark and family will be in my prayers.
I’m so sorry for your great loss. Please take comfort in the Blessed Mother Mary and Jesus Christ who showed us all that we must die to be resurrected. Joan and I admired Sue from long ago. May God bless you and your family.
To Mark and your entire beautiful family, it has been a pleasure these past 40 years to have been a neighbor to you and Sue, as well as a friend, occasional dinner date, and and a few other things that have helped enhance our own lives over the years. We pray God’s blessings on all of you and we will always remember Sue fondly.
Marsha and Steve
Our heartfelt sympathy to Mark and the entire Ohlendorf family. Sue’s presence never went unnoticed, as she brought love and joy to everyone who was fortunate to meet her. We shall cherish the fond memories of Sue at Crestwood Pool and all the St. Justin’s social events. It is natural for us to be sadden by her loss, however, we are thankful that God put her on this earth to touch our lives.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Susan and John Kilo
Mark, I am so sorry to hear about Sue. I will have you and your family in my prayers. May the beautiful memories you have carry you through this very difficult time.
Gail and I are truly heartbroken by your loss. Your words painted a picture of true love and a special relationship and life lived to the fullest. I wish there were some prayer or way that I could wipe away the tears and give back your joy if only for a moment. You and your family will be in our hearts. We love you Mark.
Dear Mark,
We were so blessed to reconnect with you and Sue after all the years we lived away from St. Louis. We remember the night you and Sue showed us your design for parks improvement!!
Thank you for all the times we spent together making new memories.
Blessings to you Mark and all your family,
Katy and Gene
Sue,
I address this to you. I have so many memories of you. Too many to mention. But, you made me laugh, you taught me that an all day fight to get a chile dog was worth it, you adored your father and Mark, you were so proud of your kids, grandkids and great grandchild. You were a card shark and a devoted friend to Carol Beloli through thick and thin. You cut through most of the BS and could tolerate my and Mark’s shenanigans for over 40 years. You had an amazing ability to balance atop a boat bumper and to throw parties in the back of a box truck upon Mark’s return from a business trip.
I will cherish the side eye glances you gave me when Mark was handing you a bill of goods for you to go along with the latest and greatest plan of his. So many times the four of us would just say, “We can do that.” And, we pretty much did.
I’ll always remember our trip up the Mississippi from St. Louis to Quincy, Illinois and the first lock we went through. Who would have ever known we were so close, but yet so far from making it to Pig Island, where Mark and I would have gone crazy. Truly, a trip for the books. Our trips to Florida, with Luau parties, dog tracks, beach and any crazy thing we set our minds to. Your stroll through the screen door at the Lake, late night boat rides, buying strangers shots of tequila, dressing to the nines to attend the VP Ball. Where does it all stop – I could go on forever. These things race through my mind this morning ahead of Mass. You were such a large part of my life and Jill’s.
Sue, you will NEVER be forgotten and always hold a special place in my heart.
See you soon!
So sorry to hear of Sues passing. Heartfelt condolences to the Olendorf gang.
A neighbor on Westwick since 1983. Just found out. We remember the early years’ outings and then we kinda lost track. So sorry Mark.
Mark and the Ohlendorf family, our condolences on Sue’s passing. We have fond memories of her at the Foundations holiday gatherings. Our prayers go out to you all.