On Sat. 10/18/2025. Loving father of Steve (Liz Mueller), Sue (Kimmie) Lagermann and Rachel Hoyer Cherished grandfather of Matthew Lagermann and Ethan and Caleb Ude. Beloved partner for 20years of Virgie Cooper. Dear brother of Rose (late Joe) Guarino and the late Sr. Marilyn Lagermann A.S.C.J. Our dear uncle, cousin and friend to many.
Services; Funeral from Kutis South County Chapel (5255 Lemay Ferry) on Tuesday 10/28 9:30AM for 10AM mass at St. Margaret Mary Alacoque Catholic Church. Interment Resurrection Cemetery. Visitation Mon. 10/27 at Kutis from 4-8PM. In lieu of flowers donations to the Backstoppers appreciated.
I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences as you navigate this difficult time. Tom was a wonderful man, always so kind and caring. He will be missed by all those who love him.
I’m deeply saddened by the passing of my former uncle, Tom. He was a truly good man—kind, generous, and full of quiet strength. As a kid, he took me fishing, camping, and trout fishing, creating memories that still bring a smile. He lived with integrity and showed God’s love through his actions and the way he treated others. His presence was a gift, and he will be missed dearly. Rest in peace, Tom.
Tom was so kind to me and my sisters as we struggled to fit in with our new family when my dad married his mom in 1966. I was so glad to finally have a brother. Our family fell apart with the deaths of our parents, but in my heart Tom will always be my brother. I truly love him and am so grateful for all of his kindnesses throughout the years.
Marilyn Winka is my best friend and I met Tom when Marilyn’s Dad Bill married Connie.
Although, it has been many years since I have seen Tom (I moved to TX in 1976), I do know that Tom is a special person. I recall Tom as being good-natured and rather quiet.
My sincere condolences to his family for this earthly loss. We are related and united in our faith.
Eternal rest grant to Tom, O lord and let perpetual light shine upon Tom. May Tom’s soul and all the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace. 😇
Barbara