Joseph Tyson Maness, 76, of Affton, entered eternal rest on Friday, February 27, 2026 with his daughter Stacy by his side. Born on October 31, 1949, to the late Loice and Martha Maness (Barger), Joseph lived a life defined by devotion to his family, quiet strength, and faithful service. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his sister, Elizabeth Kendrick; and his brothers, John Maness, Vergel Amos Maness, and David Lee Maness.
Joseph is lovingly remembered by his daughters, Shannon (Jonathan) Maness-Brown and Stacy Maness-Mack; his cherished grandchildren, Brendan Baldwin, Jeffery Jones II, Hayden Brown, Ethan “Niko” Brown, , and Michael “Mikey” Mack; his precious great-grandchild, Aria Rose Jones; his brothers, James Maness and Samuel Maness; and a large circle of extended family and dear friends who will miss him deeply.
At just nineteen years old, Joseph answered the call to serve his country, entering the United States Army on May 15, 1969. He served honorably until January 13, 1972, attaining the rank of Specialist (E-4). As an infantryman with the 1st Cavalry Division (Airmobile), 3rd Battalion, he served in Vietnam during one of the most challenging periods in American history. His courage and dedication were recognized with several honors, including the Bronze Star Medal for meritorious service in a combat zone, the Army Good Conduct Medal, the National Defense Service Medal, the Vietnam Service Medal, and the Vietnam Campaign Medal. He carried these distinctions with humility, but his family carries them with immense pride.
Following his military service, Joseph dedicated many years of hard work to the Union Pacific Railroad, where he worked as a carman until his retirement. He took pride in his work and in providing for his family.
Joseph had a special place in his heart for his beloved furry companions, Queen and Mellow — affectionately known as “Meatball.” To him, they were never just pets, but treasured members of the family. If Joseph was eating, Mellow was sure to be close by, happily sharing the moment — which may explain how he earned his nickname. Queen was his loyal shadow, always nearby and generous with the warmest snuggles. Their companionship brought him immeasurable comfort and joy.
Anyone who truly knew Joseph understood how deeply he loved writing music lyrics and poetry. Words were one of the ways he expressed his heart and reflected on life. He found comfort in country music and excitement in high-stakes mystery and survival television shows — captivated by stories of spirits in the dark or individuals enduring against the odds.
Above all, Joseph treasured time spent with family and friends. Whether it was drinking coffee together, sharing a meal, or swapping stories late into the evening, those simple, meaningful moments mattered most to him. His presence brought warmth, his stories brought smiles, and his steady love will live on in the hearts of all who were blessed to know him.
Services: Visitation will be held at Kutis Funeral Home Affton Chapel located at 10151 Gravois Road, St. Louis, MO 63123 on Wednesday, March 11 from 4-8 pm. with Funeral Service on Thursday, March 12 at 12:30 pm. Interment will follow at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery, where full military honors will be rendered.
“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”
— 2 Timothy 4:7