Gary R. Bentrup of St. Louis passed away peacefully on March 24, 2025 surrounded by his loving family at the age of 67.
A devoted husband, loving dad, Gpa, brother, uncle, and son, Gary was passionate about watching the Cardinals and Blues, discussing sports and politics, and, most of all spending time with his family and, in particular, his grandchildren. Gary was known for his love of beer, music and a good time.
Gary is survived by his wife, Cheryl, his son, Brian (Natalia), his grandchildren, Sofia and Brady, his mother, Frances, his brothers, Richard (Sharon), Michael (Maria) and Joseph, and many nieces and nephews. He was proceeded in death by his sister, Rita.
Visitation will be held on Monday, March 31st from 11:30am – 1:30pm at Kutis Funeral Home, 10151 Gravois Rd, St. Louis, MO 63123 followed by a service at 1:30pm.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Lions Club of St. Louis South Side.
Cheryl
I am sooooooooooo sorry
Was a friend and business acquaintance for 40 + years. Always a smile and great personality. May you Rest In Peace my friend.
Gary, my brother, it hurts me so bad that you left us. I will miss you everyday. Life will not be the same without you here. You were always fun to be around. I love you brother.
Gary was the best and friendliest neighbor one could ever ask for. Will miss him and the festive backyard happy hours with great music.
My sincerest condolences to Gary’s family that you have lost this precious one. We met through a chance phone call, and stayed business go to and friends for several years until we retired.
Next time I tip one up, Gary, it will be for our last one.
You are the great one.
I pray that family and friends find comfort and peace in gathering and sharing memories..
I was very fortunate to know Gary. I not only considered him a customer, but a friend. He always greeted me with a smile and wanted to know how my family was doing. He always went above and beyond. He will be missed. RIP Gary
I had the pleasure of working with Gary when he was at Corporate Express and I worked at Washington University. He always was helpful when I needed to order special items.
Rest in peace my friend
Mary Settlemoir
Gary and I have been friends for over 30 years and he has always been the same – good natured, fun to be around, and his sense of humor that made us all laugh. We met at work and everybody we worked with considered it a pleasure to work with him. There is no doubt that he will be missed by so many people. Gary, we will never forget you, Rest in Peace.
A great friend to so many. It was great working with you and Gary. He will be missed.
Gary and his wife Cheryl were regulars at a brewery I worked at for a few years. They were always a joy to talk to and Gary and Cheryl both were always smiling and laughing and taking a keen interest in my and my coworkers lives. He will be missed. ❤️
I met G about fifteen years ago. Spent many Saturdays talking Blues, Cardinals and politics. Going to miss him and his great stock tips. RIP my friend, till we meet again.
Uncle Gary, you will be greatly missed! You were one of the most laid back, kind people I know (unless you were losing at Madden while playing my dad, ha!). I hope you have found rest and you and Rita are chatting it up.
Love you lots and will miss you always,
Sammie
GARY i CAN’T DESCRIBE HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU AND ALWAYS WILL . REST IN PEACE. HOPE YOU RITA AND NONNIE WILL MEET AGAIN. MOM
GARY i CAN’T DESCRIBE HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU AND ALWAYS WILL . REST IN PEACE. HOPE YOU RITA AND NONNIE WILL MEET AGAIN.
Well Gary we had a beer or two in your honor after the service. All the UCBC guys went to hug our Schlafly friends at the Tap Room and it felt like you were there. Your brother did the best eulogy ever! He had us laughing but we also ran out of kleenex. If I’d have known about the Madden thing I’d have totally smoked you. You can’t blitz me and if you try a cover 2 I’m just gonna run slants to the outside all day. Anyway, love you sir.
A Golden heart stopped beating
Hard working hands at rest
His early departure just prove to us
God only takes the very best
In this time of sorrow, may you find comfort in the loving memories of your Dad. You and the entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.