Passed away peacefully at the age of 86 on February 9, 2026. Patricia was born on August 21, 1939, and was a proud lifelong resident of St. Louis, Missouri. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Orville J. Diehl, with whom she shared over 40 years of marriage and built a life rooted in faith and family. Pat was a devoted mother to two children, her son John David and her daughter Susan (Vince) Hanak. She was a proud grandmother to her two grandchildren, Megan and Vincent. Family meant everything to her, and she never missed an opportunity to brag about the people she loved. She was one of two siblings and is preceded in death by her brother Raymond Alexander. Pat is survived by Raymond’s wife, Peggy Alexander, who was not only her sister-in-law but also her longtime roommate and dear friend. The two shared a bond that began in high school and lasted a lifetime. Both Pat and Peggy were graduates of Southwest High School and remained close until Pat’s final days. For many years, Pat worked for an orthopedic doctor, a role she took pride in. She was also deeply involved in her church, where she was an active member of her ladies’ group and found strong community and faith. Pat will be remembered for her vibrant personality and unmistakable zest for life. She was an avid Jeopardy! watcher, never missed a Raiders game, and enjoyed a good margarita. Pat lived life on her own terms. Above all, Pat was a great woman who was deeply loved and will be profoundly missed by all who knew her.
Service: Visitation at Kutis Affton Chapel Tuesday, February 17th 4-8 pm. Funeral Service at Kutis Affton Chapel Wednesday, February 18th 9 am. Internment Jefferson Barracks Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions be made to the Alzheimer’s Association https://www.alz.org/ or the American Heart Association https://www.heart.org/en/why-give
So sorry for your loss prayers for you and your family God bless y’all RIP Aunt Pat we will never forget you
Pat, you will be truly missed. I remember the times I met you at the family functions. You always had nice things to say to everyone. You were always kind and soft spoken. I know you are glad to be with Orville now and probably talking old times. Rest in peace sweet woman.
Dear Aunt Pat
Anyone that had the pleasure of meeting you will never forget your warm, loving smile. You made all the kids feel special and safe when they were around you. You were good for Uncle Orville and kept him in line. He loved you dearly and will be welcoming you with open arms, to be together forever…
You gave your family such a wonderful life, full of love and comfort. What a great loss to the world, you will be missed by so many.
Love,
Bobby Diehl
So sorry for your loss. I have known Pat through our church choir, the women’ group and both Bill and I through church events. She was awesome always asked how people were even when she was not feeling great and she will be missed.
Karen & Bill Byington
Could not ask for a better a neighbor. I have known Pat over 40 years. Stories that were told and the laughter. You will be missed.
We are so sorry to learn of your moms passing. Your mom an my mom were friends for many years. We are so sorry for your loss. We have so many fond memories from over the years. Your family is in our prayers.
John,
We were all so sad to hear of your mom’s passing. We have heard so much about her over the past years that you have worked with us. It’s almost like we knew her also. You and your sister are in our prayers.
Your Rockwood family
John,
We were so sad to hear of your mother’s passing. We have heard so much about her over the years that you have been working with us. It’s almost like we knew her personally. Our prayers are out there for you and your sister.
Your Rockwood Family