Leroy Frank “Lee” Koenig, 65, passed away peacefully on June 27, 2026, at Barnes-Jewish Hospital with his family by his side. He always joked he was the healthiest cancer patient he knew. In the end, the cancer didn’t take him but other, unrelated complications got the best of him.
Lee was born on March 25, 1961, in St. Louis, Missouri, to Lawrence and Greta Koenig.
He and his beloved wife, Pamela Lynn Koenig, would have celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary this December. Together, they dreamed of traveling and making many more memories in the years ahead. Together they raised two children, Stanton Lee Koenig and Rylee Rae Koenig (fiancé Jake Drayton). He was also the proud and devoted dad to his beloved fur babies, Stella and Willow, and adored his four grand-kitties: Lou, Mo, Pip, and Ozzy.
Lee was the youngest of five siblings. He is survived by his sisters, Lorraine Koenig and Linda (Joseph) Neiner; his brother, Leonard Koenig; and his sister-in-law, Sandy Koenig, wife of his late brother Larry Koenig. He also leaves behind many nieces, nephews, extended family members, and dear friends who loved him deeply.
A lifelong sports enthusiast, Lee played rugby for many years with the St. Louis Bombers Rugby Club. After retiring from the sport, he found joy in camping, golfing, and traveling with his family and friends. Whether he was outdoors, cheering on his favorite teams, or spending time with those he loved most, Lee lived life with a generous heart and a great sense of humor.
Christmas was, without question, Lee’s favorite time of year. He loved everything about the season—the lights, the music, the traditions, and especially watching Elf, which had become a family favorite because of him. Every year he looked forward to putting up Christmas lights, turning the house into something special. Seeing his excitement and hearing him laugh during the holidays is a memory his family will always treasure.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Lawrence and Greta Koenig; his brother, Larry Koenig. And waiting for him in heaven was the best dog ever, Coco with the biggest stick she could find!
Lee will be remembered for his strength, resilience, kindness, and unwavering love for his family. His presence will be deeply missed, but the memories he created and the love he shared will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.
Visitation will be held at Kutis Funeral Home in Affton on Thursday, July 2, 2026 from 3:00pm-8:00pm.
Memorials may be made to the St. Louis Bombers Rugby Association. https://stlouisbombers.com/pay
I met Lee through his sister Lorraine many years ago. We had lots of great times bowling. He was the most fun loving person. He will be missed by all who knew him. Prayers to his family.
My thoughts + prayers are with you all. May your memories bring you comfort during this difficult time.
Lee was such a great guy. I was lucky to reconnect with him about a year ago. He was upbeat, happy to be with his family, and looking forward to retirement. He will be missed by many.
Pam (Pa-Pam-Pam-Pam),
To you and your family — I am so sorry to hear Lee left the game way too soon. I know you and your family lived a full life every minute with him, loved with your whole heart, and made the most out of your 25 years together.
You know the sisters are here for you with a bottle of wine, sunglasses, and a sassy refrain. We love you.
I have many fond memories of working with Lee. He always brought a great personality and was genuinely engaging. Our conversations were consistently lighthearted, even when we were dealing with difficult issues.
My thoughts and prayers are with everyone who had the privilege of knowing Lee,
Rest in peace, Lee. It was an honor and a privilege to work with you over the past six years. Thank you for your guidance, kindness, and unwavering support. You will be deeply missed, and my heartfelt condolences are with your family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing you.
Met Lee when I pledged Sig Ep in 1982. He was so humble and nice. Never had a bad word to say about anyone. Was loved by all his Sig Ep Brothers and everyone at SEMO. RIP Lee.
Our deepest sympathy to Pam, her children, and all the Koenig families. May Lee rest in eternal peace with our Lord Jesus Christ.
Prayers and blessings to all of you.
Bob and Sheila Heitz