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Melvin Wheatley 1

In Loving Memory

Wheatley, Melvin L.

November 26, 1938 - July 20, 2024

Saturday, July 20, 2024.  Beloved husband of the late Frances M. Wheatley (nee Temares).  Dear father of Marie Wheatley, Vicki Jones (Steve), Tim Wheatley (Gregory Cotter) and Gregory Wheatley.  Dear grandfather of Ryan Jones (Susan), Tyler Jones (Lulu) and Melanie Jones (Chris).  Dear brother of Mary Finocchiaro, twin brother of Al Wheatley, Janice Lane and the late John Wheatley, Joe Wheatley (surviving Maryanne), Ann McGowan, Jim Wheatley, Kenneth Wheatley, Michael Wheatley (surviving Darlene), Patrick Wheatley (surviving Jan).  Our dear brother-in-law, uncle, cousin and friend.

SERVICES:  Visitation at Kutis South County Chapel (5255 Lemay Ferry Road St. Louis, Missouri 63129) on Thursday, July 25, 9:00 a.m. until funeral service at 12:30 p.m.  Interment Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery.  In lieu of flowers, contributions to Missouri Veterans Home – St. Louis (10600 Lewis and Clark Blvd. 63136) appreciated.

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9 thoughts on “Wheatley, Melvin L.”

  1. He was a beautiful soul and will be missed by his family and friends.
    May God wrap his arms around his family members and let them know he is with them during this hard time in their lives.

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  2. Sorry for your loss. Thinking of you during this difficult time. Sending our deepest condolences. Love, the Loesch family.

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  3. To the entire Wheatley Family. Paula called to tell me the sad news. I’m so sorry to hear of Mel passing. He was a great Brother n Law. I remember throwing a 50th birthday party for the twins. My heart is sad for the family. I sure remember some of the older days when we would get together. The kids grow up so fast & then they have their own kids. I divorced in 1993 (Al Sr.) I have lived at the Lake for 25 yrs. The time sure flies. Plans & dreams are fleeting. Hold onto each other for strength. My deepest sympathy. Love you all. ❤️Shirley

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  4. Dear Wheatley family,
    We are so so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Everyone in the neighborhood loved and respected Mr. Wheatley And we are Going to miss him
    He is in heaven now
    And probably BBQing
    With the rest of the neighborhood, parents and family members, and they are all smiling down on us .
    Respectfully ; The families of Kathy Mark
    & Kim Kolbe (195❤️)

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  5. My deepest condolences to you and your family. May God lay His hands on all of you to give you peace in this time of sorrow.

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  6. Uncle Mel was a wonderful Uncle to us. I always remember him taking care of the food at all the family reunions. He loved to cook and I think he really enjoyed cooking for everyone. The more the merrier. He was funny and very caring. Rest in peace and I pray you have a wonderful eternal life with the love of your life Aunt Frannie. We will miss him. Our prayers are with all of you. Love you all Frank and Debbie

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  7. My Father Melvin Wheatley was a humorous person that enjoyed people, enjoyed laughter, and could tell a good joke. I learned my sense of adventure, the love of “Golden Age of Hollywood” movies, ethnic dining, small farms, and appreciation of loved ones. In the early 70’s Dad wanted to do an adventurous road trip to the South. We traveled thru states like Mississippi, Alabama, Louisiana, and Florida.
    We did not make any reservations anywhere and did not have an exact destination in mind except to see the Gulf of Mexico. I was fascinated going thru the backroads areas of the South. We went thru the bayous of Louisiana and I remember seeing houses on stilts while families had large outdoor kettles of Cajun, Seafood stews. This was the start of my interest in other cultures and ethnic foods. We ate foods that many people of the time did not try yet. Dad, I thank-you for all the family love and these adventurous times.

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