Anthony “Tony” Frank Tumminia, age 66, of St. Louis, Missouri, passed away surrounded by family. He lived a life full of love, laughter, and connection, leaving behind memories that will be cherished forever.
A loyal, generous, kind, and endlessly funny soul, he had a natural gift for making every room brighter. Whether he was spending time with his beloved grandchildren, enjoying lake life, sharing a good meal, or simply being the life of the party, he brought joy and energy wherever he went.
He built a respected career as an accomplished sales professional in the medical community, earning admiration not just for his work ethic but for the genuine relationships he formed along the way.
Above all, he was a devoted family man. He was a proud ‘Papa Tony’ to six grandchildren, each of whom adored him and will forever carry his spirit, humor, and love in their hearts.
Tony is survived by his loving family, including his wife, Sue Tumminia, his sons and spouses, Todd (Malynda) and Tim (Amber) Tumminia, and six grandchildren, Austin, Andi, Theo, Tyler, Tucker, and Tatum Tumminia; his mother Marilyn Tumminia, and sisters, Peggy (Josh) Tumminia-West and Annette (Kevin) Schmitz; brother-in-law, uncle, cousin and faithful friend.
Visitation at Kutis Affton Chapel 10151 Gravois Rd. 63123 on Thursday, February 19 from 3-8 pm. A Mass to honor his life will be held at St. Catherine Laboure Catholic Church (9750 Sappington Rd. 63128) on Friday, February 20 at 9:30 am. Interment at Resurrection Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Kenny Rogers Children Center under Team Tyler, a place where his granddaughter is receiving life-changing treatments. https://fundraise.givesmart.com/vf/KRCC/team/TeamTyler
Tony will be deeply missed and his memory will never be forgotten.
Sue, Todd, Mindy, and family, I was so blessed to have met Tony. You could immediately see the kindness and strength in him. I truly believe a man’s legacy is reflected in his children, and knowing the wonderful man Todd has become speaks volumes about the father who raised him. Tony’s love, guidance, and example clearly shaped a family to be proud of. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May the many beautiful memories you shared bring you comfort in the days ahead. Love Larry & Vicki Wibbenmeyer Ste Genevieve MO
Thank you for the kind words Wibbenmeyer family.
I had the pleasure & good fortune to work with Tony in the 80’s medical device world. As my career took me to other medical device companies, I strongly encouraged the existing St. Louis sales person or new hire to contact Tony for help. That probably was the best advice I’ve ever given.
As a professional sales person, there’s no one I respect more than Tony. I feel very fortunate to call Tony my friend.
Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Tony, I feel like I know him through the wonderful things I’ve heard about him. Heaven has gained a big, bright new star for sure! Please know that I am sending up my prayers for comfort and peace during this difficult time.
Love,
Linda and David Fisher
Thank you Fisher family.
My sincerest condolences to the Tumminia family.
When I was first hired at Boston Scientific, Tony “TT” was the one who showed me the ropes. He didn’t just teach me products or processes — he taught me what it meant to be a true professional in this business.
He instilled in me the importance of “white glove service.” That going above and beyond wasn’t optional — it was the standard. That details matter. Relationships matter. Showing up prepared matters.
TT set the bar high, and he lived it every single day. So much of how I operate with my accounts today traces back to those early days learning from him. The way I prepare. The way I follow through. The way I treat customers like partners. That’s his imprint.
Grateful for the time I had to learn from him,
grateful for the example he set, and grateful that his legacy will live on in the way so many of us carry ourselves in this profession.
Really appreciate the kind words Zach. He thought very highly of you and will still be cheering you on.
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. Tony was the ultimate professional and loved by all who knew him. We both called on the Cardiac Cath Labs in St Louis and saw each other often. He always brought a smile to everyone’s face. Rest in Peace my friend.
Thank you Mike for the kind words. Very proud of the his legacy.
-Todd, his son
I worked with Tony at Boston Scientific. Every time we talked and I asked him how he was doing, the conversation somehow led back to his wife, sons and grandchildren. It was obvious he was very proud of his family and his face lit up when he talked about them. He was the hardest worker, always gave great business (and life) advice and would remind me how lucky we were to work for the company we did. He will be greatly missed by all.
When you move into a new house, as we did 35 years ago, you don’t really expect to gain neighbors who become life-long friends. But Tony and Sue have always been the finest of neighbors and friends. As we watched Todd and Tim grow from babies to toddlers to young men with families of their own, we witnessed a loving and faithful family who always supported and encouraged one another and all who surrounded them., including us. We are blessed to be adopted family sharing countless events and parties, BBQs and camping trips, snow days and backyard conversations. Memories that will sustain us, as Tony will be forever
missed and loved.
Tom & Gerry
My deepest sympathy to the Tumminia family. I had the pleasure of working with Tony for at least five years before his retirement. I am sorry to learn of his passing.
I just wanted to share how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Even though I never had the chance to meet Tony, over this past week I’ve heard so many beautiful, funny, and heartfelt stories about him from Denny and Jim. It’s so clear how deeply he was loved and how much joy he brought into your lives.
The way you all speak about him says everything about the kind of man he was — someone who created memories, laughter, and connection that will live on. What a gift that is.
Holding all of you close in my heart and praying for peace, comfort, and moments of light as you celebrate Tony’s life and carry his spirit forward.
With love Jessica 🤍
As a first cousin to Tony, (his father Frank was my mom, Josephine’s brother) I’ve known him since his birth!! Not too many people can say that. I think he was born doing jazz hands or some other form of entertaining. The kid that grew into a man was born to emcee LIFE! He made a mean red sauce and relentlessly over the years razzed me about my greasy sauce. Many a sauce-off later, he remains the comic relief, the one who stepped up to glue us cousins together and just as he had choreographed new ways for la familia to gather, God calls him home. Right when the winning sauce contest could have been mine. Without Tony, we all might have to eat Alfredo sauce for the rest of our lives. What an amazing guy….. as I read these testimonials above mine, I can proudly say I’m so fortunate to be his cousin and his Aunt Josie will be glad to see him with his dad Frank , Aunt Marge and Uncle Sam the rest of the elders of the familia! Buonanima Antonino!!!!
Tony was my funniest first cousin; life of the family parties. He paid high price when Uncle Frank who thought he misbehaved despite my mother Josephine did not scold us. He graciously took it then all was back to normal. Every gift exchange he would yell for us to “ take the beer” that someone inevitably brought. His dinner plate consisted of pasta and sauce only and he was heavily criticized to get something else on his plate immediately. These are my fondest memories of my cousin Tony. After my divorce I changed my name to his….we will forever miss our boisterous first cousin. He would want us to celebrate his life not mourn. Rest now out of pain in the Light dear friend!🙏✨
My parents sold off some of their front yard from the home my mom grew up in to have a small 3 house subdivision built named after my Mom and her brother. We were not sure at the time that this was a good decision but figured out pretty quickly that the new neighbors that moved in across the street would end up being the best neighbors anyone could ever ask for. Tony and Sue helped my parents with countless chores as they aged and Brett and I will be forever greatful. My kids also enjoyed Todd and Tim as little friends growing up. We will miss you Tony T forever!
SEMO, to SCL to bump ins at medical facilities, our families were formed by faith in SOCO. Fr’s. Ross or McCormick, PSR or Church service, we will continue our mission of faith, family and service with a space open for Tony’s spirit.
Sue how great it has been to serve, and grow along side you and Tony. He will be missed by all, but mostly his best friend, wife and girl. His only.
My sincerest condolences to the Tumminia family. I had the distinct honor of working with Tony for several years after moving to Sikeston,Missouri. His encouragement and support will be missed. Above all, he showed us what a kind person can truly achieve with his humanity…one smile and one encouragement at a time. Tony …you will be sorely missed. On behalf of all of us at Missouri Delta Urology and Missouri Delta Medical Center.
Dear Tumminia Family- my sincere and heartfelt condolences on your loss. I met Tony in 1998 while working together at a new start up company and we remained friends thereafter. Please know how much he positively impacted others. Great friend. Great colleague. Great father. Great husband. He will be so missed for his sense of humor and approach to life. May our Lord Almighty give you peace and comfort during this difficult time. 🙏
I was very sad to hear about Tony’s passing. I worked with Tony for five years while I was training at WashU Urology. I will always remember him as a wonderful person. He was always very professional, hard-working, funny, I was always willing to go above and beyond to help.
He is clearly leaving behind a beautiful family, and he will be missed by everyone who knew him.
I hope you all find peace and comfort, may he rest in peace
I was a colleague of Tony while at a medical device start up CTS. We called him T-Bone. He always brought a positive attitude and laughter to our meetings. I got to know many Heart Surgeons in St Louis through his relationships. Prayers go out to T Bones family. He will be missed by all of you but not forgotten. May God Bless the Tumminia family
Sue, I’m so sorry to hear about Tony’s passing. I’m sure your family will miss him dearly. I hope your family feels Tony’s spirit in each of you. When I think of Tony I think of laughter and humor. He always brought a smile to life.
On behalf of my family, and personally, please accept our deepest and most sincere condolences on the passing of Tony.
It was my distinct honor and privilege to have known Tony for many years, most recently through our professional association at Getinge. He will be remembered as a true gentleman — a devoted husband, father, and grandfather, and a loyal, highly respected colleague. His integrity, kindness, and professionalism left a lasting impression on all who had the privilege of working with him.
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May he rest in eternal peace.
Keith and I had the honor of meeting Tony at the lake. My father in law lived across the street. Bob loved Tony as a son and we learned very early on why. To the Tummenia family we pray for you daily. Im sure Bob and Tony are talking about lake levels. We watched the service from our home in OKC. Beautiful service. Bless you all
Keith and I had the honor of meeting Tony at the lake. My father in law lived across the street. Bob loved Tony as a son and we learned very early on why. To the Tummenia family we pray for you daily. Im sure Bob and Tony are talking about lake levels. We watched the service from our home in OKC. Beautiful service. Bless you all
Sue and family.
Tony was a man I respected and enjoyed spending time with. He was kind, thoughtful and a man of strong ethics. I learned from him, trusted him and thanks to Sue always had fresh hot chocolate when working with him.
My life is better due to his friendship. RIP Tony, thank you for your friendship and direction.