DePew, Skip

In Loving Memory

DePew, Howard Lee “Skip”

October 1, 1959 - May 3, 2026

Baptized into the Hope of Christ’s Resurrection Sunday, May 3, 2026.

It is with deep sadness we announce the passing of Howard (Skip) Lee Depew Jr. aged 66. He passed away in the comfort of his home surrounded by family and friends the morning of May 3rd at 11:05 AM.

Beloved son of late Alice and Howard Depew. Brother of Sandy Bradford (Depew), Brian Depew, Carey Depew and Shannon Riggs (Depew). Uncle to the late Gunner Bradford But survived by Mackenzie Bradford, Madison Espino (Bradford), Jamie Riggs and Jordan Riggs. Great uncle to Jaxon Casanover, Liam Riggs Worsham, Leah Casanover, Levi Casanover, Oliver Casanover, Jupiter Vitale and Julian Vitale; survived by Dawn Cousineau Walsh, Abby Walsh and Aidan Walsh; Most important skip was a friend to all.

He was an Air Force veteran who enjoyed volunteering on behalf of the Affton Elks lodge to help other veterans and those in need. He enjoyed playing golf and fuzzball with his buddies. Attending and coaching soccer games, traveling as well as attending music festivals and concerts.

He had an amazing life that was cut too short and though we will always miss him, we will forever cherish our memories of him.

Please join us in remembering Skip.

Visitation at Kutis Affton Chapel 10151 Gravois Rd. 63123 on Tuesday, May 12 from 4-9 pm. with Funeral Service on Wednesday, May 13 at 10:00 am. Interment at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery.

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16 thoughts on “DePew, Howard Lee “Skip””

  1. My condolences and prayers to your family. I met Skip when he was in the Air Force at Kirtland , in Albuquerque, New Mexico . When I met him, I loved his his smile and his beautiful eyes and so handsome. God bless Depew rest in peace my friend.

    GOD BLESS

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  2. Skip was a one of a kind. I was fortunate enough to played Football and Rugby, among other adventures, with him at Cleveland High School. As well as attending concerts, wineries, trips, social events and many others. He was proud of his life’s accomplishments and looked forward to retirement.
    Most people have a lot of acquaintances but very few friends. I am proud to say that Skip was my friend. Rest in Peace.

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  3. I send my sincere condolences and prayers to Skip’s family and friends. He loved his family and his country that he served with honor. He had a lot of fun but also did a lot of good works in his life. We will miss him at the swim club and seeing him around town. We had many good times and laughs together. We will miss seeing you on your big blue foam raft.. you will be gone but not forgotten.
    RIP Skip

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  4. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Skip’s family and his many friends. We met in high school. RIP 🇺🇲🙏

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  5. You were an idol to me growing up and a terrific friend since we’ve been grown. I’ll miss you always, Skip. You were the definition of cool. Say hi to Stevie and my dad for me.

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  6. Skip is my brother! And we are going to miss him so much! My heart goes out to his community. He had so many friends and colleagues that clearly meant something to him. I’m also sorry for your loss as well. He will be missed!

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  7. Skip you will be sorely missed – we had so many more trips in our future retired lives. Life is not fair – gone far too soon! I will treasure all of the memories made over the years – until we meet again!

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  8. I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words that can make this better, but I hope you can find some comfort in knowing that skip changed, a lot of people‘s lives I always felt like he was one of my brothers because we done a lot of things together and had a lot of fun together hanging out at the Oz Pops and all the concerts at Westport Plaza. He always showed up at my birthday parties. Just an incredible person that I will truly be miss and I will never stop talking about.
    RIP Skip Depew.

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  9. Skip,
    We had such good times growing up in the old neighborhood. You were a good friend and a wonderful person. All your works at the Affton Elks Lodge were grateful and your presence will be truly missed. Here’s to you friend. Until we meet again.

    Sending our love and condolences to the Depew family.

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  10. Skip, our time together was cut short. I loved you dearly, and I know you felt the same. You will always hold a special place in my heart, and I will treasure the last 4 years with you, especially your final words to me. So sweet.
    See you on the other side, baby.

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  11. My sincere condolences to your family. Skip was truly one of a kind. I met Skip over 35 years ago when I was a cocktail waitress at Casa Gallardo. He loved his margaritas. I was working two jobs as a single mom at the time & Skip was one of my 1st real estate clients. I sold him his house almost 33 years ago to the day. I reconnected with Skip 4 or 5 years ago & loved hearing about all his travels. He had his retirement countdown to the months-days-weeks etc. I have so many great memories of Skip & always enjoyed talking to him. Skip was a true gentleman & will be greatly missed by everyone. My heart hurts for all those who had the pleasure of knowing him. RIP.

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  12. I was fortunate enough to call Skip my friend, I known him since we were young men and had a lot of great times back in the day, it’s only good bye for now brother I will see you again and we’ll play that round we never got to. RIP Skip!

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  13. Skip will be missed. I first met him while working in the Access Review Group( his desk was next to mine). We had many lunches out of the office at Sybergs, and since he lived by me in the winter would pick me up so I would not have to drive in the snow. Very kind man who loved STL Cardinals, his dogs, wine, and the Air Force. Rest in peace my old friend. This is not goodbye but until we meet again.

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  14. My sincere condolences to all of Skip’s family and friends! I’m so sorry for your loss! May God comfort you. Love, sympathy, and hugs to all!

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