Mayer, Thomas Charles passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 19, 2022. Beloved son of the late Robert I. and Delores L. Mayer; beloved husband of his late wife Donna R. Mayer of 40 years; dear father of Michael (Erin) Mayer, Sara (Joseph) Steska and Scott (Katherine) Mayer; dear brother of Teresa (Stephen) Blessing, Marylou Olsen and the late Theodore Mayer; best Gramps to his 7 and soon to be 8 grandchildren, Christopher, Shelby, Charlie, Robby, Jaden, Madelyn and Grace. A wonderful uncle, brother-in-law, son-in-law and great friend to many. He was so loved and is already missed so much.
Early in life working at the zoo, he forged many lifelong friendships and met his future wife, Donna. Tom was an example to all in his devotion to Donna. Tom and Donna made it a point of emphasis in life to “enjoy every moment” in the service of others through good times and in bad. Tom graduated from UMSL. He spent most of his professional career in IT at Anhueser-Busch, which enabled him to retire at the age of 52. In retirement, he truly put his family and friends first. Tom treasured his role as “Gramps”. He had a unique bond and dedication to his grandchildren. He was in regular attendance at their sporting events and always had an adventure for them up his sleeve. Faith has always been an integral part of Tom’s life through his involvement and volunteerism in the S.M.M.A. parish. Tom has meant so much to so many, while we acknowledge the immeasurable loss, we’ll hold on to knowing how lucky we are to have had him in our lives.
Services; Visitation at Kutis South County (5255 Lemay Ferry) on Saturday 3/26 from 9:30 AM – 11:30 AM then to St. Margaret Mary Alacoque for 12 PM mass. Interment Resurrection Cemetery.
Donations to SMMA or Saint Louis Zoo Foundation will be greatly appreciated at the time of visitation.
So very sorry to hear this about an amazing man and family. Thinking and praying for all of you during this difficult time.
So very sorry to hear this about an amazing man and family. Thinking and praying for all of you during this difficult time.
Mike, Sara and Scott, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. He was a special person, always happy and a dry sense if humor. I remember meetings at your house, your mom serving cookies and your dad passing out drinks. Let me know if there is snything I can do for you.
Mike, Sara and Scott, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. He was a special person, always happy and a dry sense if humor. I remember meetings at your house, your mom serving cookies and your dad passing out drinks. Let me know if there is snything I can do for you.
It seems impossible that Tom and Donna are gone. Many many wonderful memories of fun times and great ski adventures. Rest in peace Tom. You will be sorely missed. My sincere condolences to his precious family.
It seems impossible that Tom and Donna are gone. Many many wonderful memories of fun times and great ski adventures. Rest in peace Tom. You will be sorely missed. My sincere condolences to his precious family.
I’m so sad, don’t how to come to grips with Tom’s death. I’m so happy I had the chance to reunite with Tom over lunch recently. He was the older brother I never had as we lived two doors away from each other on Arthur Ave. Tom being two years older, asked me to come with him on his Canada fishing trip in 1975. So together the day after I graduated from St Mary’s HS Tom, Mike K, and me drove off to Canada. Tom taught me so much as probably my best friend, neighbor and almost family. As neighbors we lived and breathed sports, finding snakes and insects, and we would meet up at 6 am and ride our bikes to Willkie Park to fish for carp.
I introduced Tom to trout fishing which he ended up loving so much. We would meet at Montauk State Park many time with our families.
I’ll always cherish Tom Mayer and there is a huge hole in my heart today. I will miss him so much. ❤️
I’m so sad, don’t how to come to grips with Tom’s death. I’m so happy I had the chance to reunite with Tom over lunch recently. He was the older brother I never had as we lived two doors away from each other on Arthur Ave. Tom being two years older, asked me to come with him on his Canada fishing trip in 1975. So together the day after I graduated from St Mary’s HS Tom, Mike K, and me drove off to Canada. Tom taught me so much as probably my best friend, neighbor and almost family. As neighbors we lived and breathed sports, finding snakes and insects, and we would meet up at 6 am and ride our bikes to Willkie Park to fish for carp.
I introduced Tom to trout fishing which he ended up loving so much. We would meet at Montauk State Park many time with our families.
I’ll always cherish Tom Mayer and there is a huge hole in my heart today. I will miss him so much. ❤️
Just a wonderful, wonderful man. I feel honored and blessed to have had him in my life.
Just a wonderful, wonderful man. I feel honored and blessed to have had him in my life.
I’m so deeply shocked and saddened by Tom’s passing. We embarked on so many adventures with he and Donna over the years from skiing, biking, BBQ’s and winery outings. So many fond memories watching their children growing up, getting married and starting their families. My deepest condolences to Mike, Sara, Scott and their families in this very sad time.
I’m so deeply shocked and saddened by Tom’s passing. We embarked on so many adventures with he and Donna over the years from skiing, biking, BBQ’s and winery outings. So many fond memories watching their children growing up, getting married and starting their families. My deepest condolences to Mike, Sara, Scott and their families in this very sad time.
I am so happy to have had Tom as a neighbor and family friend for over 35 years. I am still looking for him working out in the backyard. Tom you will truly be missed by many.
I am so happy to have had Tom as a neighbor and family friend for over 35 years. I am still looking for him working out in the backyard. Tom you will truly be missed by many.
No matter how old we are, it’s never easy to lose a parent. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve Mike.
No matter how old we are, it’s never easy to lose a parent. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve Mike.
I first met Tom when I was 16, working at the Zoo for $1.25 per hour. Little did I know then that it would lead to a friendship that was truly priceless. Tom and Donna were a great couple, totally dedicated to each other and their family.
Thanks for a lot of great moments. It was a privilege being your friend.
I first met Tom when I was 16, working at the Zoo for $1.25 per hour. Little did I know then that it would lead to a friendship that was truly priceless. Tom and Donna were a great couple, totally dedicated to each other and their family.
Thanks for a lot of great moments. It was a privilege being your friend.
Tom & Donna were our neighbors for over 30 years. They tended to our circle in the cul-de-sac, as if it were their own. Always friendly & kind. Always a wave & a smile. First Donna, now joined by her husband, Tom. Lives gone too soon. God’s speed.
Tom & Donna were our neighbors for over 30 years. They tended to our circle in the cul-de-sac, as if it were their own. Always friendly & kind. Always a wave & a smile. First Donna, now joined by her husband, Tom. Lives gone too soon. God’s speed.
I got to know Tom at AB – we became strong friends and supported each other to the end. This world will not be the same with Tom.
I got to know Tom at AB – we became strong friends and supported each other to the end. This world will not be the same with Tom.
Tom was my first boss at AB! Great guy he will be missed by many! Such a wonderful individual. My heart goes out to his family in this difficult time.
Tom was my first boss at AB! Great guy he will be missed by many! Such a wonderful individual. My heart goes out to his family in this difficult time.
Tom & I worked together for many years. He was someone to count on always: kind and smart and professional and competent and fun!! I am heartbroken he is no longer where I can talk to him. My prayers for comfort go out to his family, especially his children. Your father was a wonderful person.
Tom & I worked together for many years. He was someone to count on always: kind and smart and professional and competent and fun!! I am heartbroken he is no longer where I can talk to him. My prayers for comfort go out to his family, especially his children. Your father was a wonderful person.
So sorry to hear this news. I worked with Tom and Donna at the zoo and remember all the great times we had socializing after work. Did a Canada fishing trip which I still have pictures from . Along with his friend chuck. Time passes but memories remain.
So sorry to hear this news. I worked with Tom and Donna at the zoo and remember all the great times we had socializing after work. Did a Canada fishing trip which I still have pictures from . Along with his friend chuck. Time passes but memories remain.
I worked with Tom for a few years at AB. He was a true blessing and great boss. I’m so sorry to hear of his passing. Prayers to his family for peace in the difficult time.
I worked with Tom for a few years at AB. He was a true blessing and great boss. I’m so sorry to hear of his passing. Prayers to his family for peace in the difficult time.
I cherish the times that I would go out on long runs in Kirkwood with my chain of command Jeff and Tom. Tom was an athlete and gentleman whom I had the great privilege to work for. I will run with him again if only in my mind.
I cherish the times that I would go out on long runs in Kirkwood with my chain of command Jeff and Tom. Tom was an athlete and gentleman whom I had the great privilege to work for. I will run with him again if only in my mind.