Leo G. “Gary” Stoff Jr.
August 11, 1944 – July 11, 2026
Leo G. Stoff Jr., affectionately known to all as Gary, passed away peacefully at his home in South City St. Louis on Saturday, July 11, 2026, at the age of 81, following a courageous two-year battle with cancer. He was an outgoing, hardworking man who truly never met a stranger and was deeply loved by everyone who knew him.
Gary grew up in North City St. Louis, the son of the late Leo G. Stoff Sr. and Mary (Willett) Stoff. He was a proud graduate of St. Louis University High School (SLUH) and went on to earn his degree from the SLU School of Accounting and Business. He completed his education at Notre Dame Law School, embarking on a long career as a corporate attorney. He later brought his dedication and expertise to local civic life, concluding his professional career as the Director of Elections for the City of St. Louis.
Outside of his career, Gary’s life was defined by his family, his faith, and his passions. He had a profound love for music, which found expression in his piano playing and his love for singing with his family, especially his wife. An avid sports fan, he passionately cheered for the St. Louis Cardinals and the Notre Dame football team. Gary was never seen without a cup (or pot) of coffee in his hand . Above all, Gary cherished his family and took immense joy in spoiling his grandchildren.
He is survived by his beloved wife of nearly 58 years, Elizabeth (Uskiwich) Stoff, who was his teenage sweetheart. He was the devoted father of three children: Julie (Stoff) Immer and her husband Scott Immer; Leo G. Stoff III and his wife Casey Stoff; and Paula (Stoff) Dean and her husband Neil Smith.
He was the adoring grandfather of Caitlin, Makayla, and Cosette Immer; Addison Drumm and Molly Stoff; and AJ, Dechlan, and Willett Dean; as well as three step-grandchildren, Jessica, Jordan, and Zoe Smith. He is also survived by his brother, Tom Stoff, and his wife Chris Stoff. He was preceded in death by his older brother, Jim Stoff.
Gary’s warmth, laughter, and generous spirit will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and the city he served so well.
Services: A celebration of life will be Wednesday July 22, 2026 at 10 am at St. Stephen Protomartyr at 3949 Wilmington St. Louis, MO 63116.
A Service of Kutis Funeral Home, City Chapel, 2906 Gravois Ave., Saint Louis, MO 63118
Sincere sympathy to Betsy, family, friends and all who knew and loved him. Our SSP Parish will surely miss Gary’s goodness, talent and expertise in his music ministry and so many other facets of parish life.
I extend my warmest thoughts & heartfelt prayers to all of Mr. Stoff’s family and friends.
I knew him from my days service as committeeman for the (then) 27th Ward. I never thought of him as the “Republican” director, he was just the director. He was always helpful and always smiling. There was never an election issue that he wasn’t willing to help me resolve or understand.
The City of St. Louis has truly lost a man of principle who exemplified what Democracy should look like.
Peace Be Unto His Spirit…..
Curtis Royston III
I worked with Gary for five years at the Board of elections. He was the Republican director and I was the Democratic director and that made no difference for our friendship. He was extremely knowledgeable and helpful to all who came into our office. He was such a nice person, kind and generous. Joan Burger
Though it has been a long time since I have seen Gary, I remember him fondly for his kindness and generosity. His performances in musicals at St. Stephen’s brought joy and laughter to the community.
So sorry for your family’s loss. GARY may you R.I.P sweet Angel fly high prayers and Condolences to Betsy, Children and grandchildren and all his family and friends 🙏 🧡
Sad to hear of Gary’s passing, but fond memories of our time at St. Louis University and the plays at Xavier High. Condolences to the family.
Extending thoughts and prayers to family and friends. I only knew Gary for a short while, but it was long enough to know what a warm and kind person he was.
May God hold him in his loving arms.
Extending thoughts and prayers to family and friends. I only knew Gary for a short while, but it was long enough to know what a warm and kind person he was.
May God hold him in his loving arms.
Sending my condolences to the family of
GARY STOFF .
I know Gary for years from working as a Republican Poll Manager for the Board of Elections. He was very knowledgeable and helpful whenever I had questions or concerns.
May he rest in peace.
MAUREEN AVOURIS
Ward 2 Republican Committeewoman
Betsy and family, please accept my sincerest condolences. Gary and I stayed friends from grade school days, despite my living away from St. Louis for nearly 60 years. He never missed communicating birthday or Christmas wishes and regular phone and email chats. My heart is heavy. Peace
Gary was always warm and kind to everyone he met. Training was enjoyable prior to the elections because of his demeanor.
Working with him since 2004, he will surely be missed.
Gary was a classmate of mine at St. Louis University High School, and while I didn’t see Gary often after graduation, whenever I did, he couldn’t have been more enjoyable to be with. A very nice man, and very bright as well.
I know as a SLUH man he will be missed by those of us in our fraternity of men.
Rest in peace, good friend.
Betsy & families, my sincere condolences at this most difficult time🙏🏻
my late brother Bill & I met Gary doing plays & musicals with the ACCY….many years
ago…
so many great treasured memories we will always have
Bill & Carolyn Benner & Linda Benner Rosen
I Love Gary Stoff he was always kind and helpful when I would go to my meetings at the Board of Elections I often would stop by his office just to say Hi
My deepest condolences to Betsy and family on Gary’s passing. My Daughter, Erin, and I had the privilege and honor to work with Gary, Betsy, and Paula for many years with the Fr. Scheid Players. His incredible musical talent led many beautiful productions and was a time of great joy for the cast and audiences alike. I will always remember his smile, laughter, and great patience. May his soul rest in peace.
Gary was a kind and generous person with a fine sense of humor. He has volunteered for many years as the MC for the annual St Louis Peregrine Society’s Trivia Night which benefits the annual trip to Branson for cancer kids and their families. You can bet he certainly enjoyed singing at least one question or answer.
Condolences to Betsy and the family.
Gary was a kind and generous person with a fine sense of humor. He volunteered for many years as the MC for the St. Louis Peregrine Society’s annual trivia night which benefits the Branson trip for kids with cancer and their families. You can bet he usually sang at least one question or answer. He was delightful.
Condolences to Betsy and his family.
I’ve known Gary through the Metro Singers. Always such a gentleman and helpful in every way. My sincere condolences to you Betsy and other family members. He is now in the heavenly place awaiting all Christians who believe and trust in Jesus. We will see him again!