Mary June Costa (nee Benoist), age 67, of Kirkwood, Missouri passed away peacefully on October 17th, surrounded by the love of her family.
Mary was preceded in death by her parents, George and Elizabeth Benoist and brothers George and Jack Benoist.
Born on January 4th, 1958, Mary was a devoted wife to Joe Costa; beloved mother to Jamie (Tim) Redington and Michael (Kelly) Welch. Proud and cherished Granny to Vivian and Delilah Redington. Loving sister to Larry (Therese) Benoist, Dan (Laura) Benoist, Beth Jurgensen, Barb (Tom) Buschmann, Dave (Jenny) Benoist, Jim (Mary) Benoist, Jill Munsell, Don (Sue) Benoist, Donna Ruemker, Frank Benoist, Joyce (Pat) Poston, Pierre (Kathy) Benoist.
Adoring Junie to Elizabeth Bannister, Bridget Poston, Tracy (Stan) Brandmeyer, Dana (Mike) Wood, Joe (Charlotte) Costa, Tony Costa, JD Brandmeyer, Sanli Woodward, Chase Smith, Alex Smith, Rachel Vester, Joey Marvel, Will Smith, 32 nieces and nephews, 36 great nieces and nephews and many friends.
Family was the true center of Junie’s world — the source of her greatest pride, joy, and purpose. She embraced every role she held with deep love and devotion: a cherished wife, a nurturing mother, a proud and doting Granny, and a loyal sister. Nothing brought her more happiness than being surrounded by the people she loved most. Her granddaughters, Vivian and Delilah, were the light of her life — her heart’s delight and constant source of inspiration. Their laughter and presence filled her days with immeasurable joy.
Junie also shared an unbreakable bond with her beloved sister and best friend, Joyce. Their time together was filled with love, laughter, and the kind of deep connection that only sisters can understand. Their relationship was a constant reminder of the strength and beauty of sisterhood. For Junie, family wasn’t just important — it was everything.
Her kindness, compassion, and unconditional love were unmatched. She lived a life of putting others first, always thinking about how she could help or give – never about what she might get in return. She was strong, selfless, generous, funny, happy, determined and always on the go. She brought so much joy and fun to everyone around her.
SERVICES: Visitation at Kutis Affton Chapel, 10151 Gravois, St. Louis, MO 63123 on Friday, October 24th from 3-8. A funeral mass for Mary will be held on Saturday, October 25th at 10 AM at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, 4200 Delor Street, St. Louis, MO 63116. Burial to follow at Resurrection Cemetery, 6901 Mackenzie Rd, St. Louis, MO 63123.
The family kindly asks that you wear pink, Junie’s favorite color.
In lieu of flowers, donations to the American Cancer Society are appreciated.
Jamie, Mike & Joyce
Spoke to your Mom/Sister at the ck in at theDr. office in the past few years. She always spoke of you all with smile and that you all kept her busy.
She played soccer with us outdoor in high school and Indoor mixed League later on.
She was the best Goalie and always there for a great laugh.
Very sorry to hear this news. Keep her memories and smile in your hearts each day
Thinking of you all.