Daniel Ward Lanham Jr, 51, passed away November 12, 2025 surrounded by the love of his family. Born to Daniel W Lanham Sr and Sharon Ann Lanham (Tullock). Dan was a beloved son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin, and friend whose presence will be deeply missed.
Danny was the twin brother of the late Debra Ann Lanham, with whom he shared an unbreakable bond. He is lovingly remembered by his sisters Mary O’Malley (Chris), Shannon Lanham (Teri), and Shari Mathes, each of whom held a special place in his heart. Lovingly known as Uncle D, he was a devoted and caring uncle who cherished his nieces and nephews – Samantha, Marissa, Stephanie, Kevin, Olivia, Spencer, Connor, and Carter. He was also a proud great-uncle to Luke. He was treasured by many aunts, uncles, and cousins, which he adored.
Danny loved celebrating life with others. Hosting Mardi Gras in Soulard became a treasured tradition for him, one that brought together friends, family, and laughter. He had a gift for making others feel welcome, included, and valued. He also found joy in opening his home and heart to animals, giving them the same unconditional care he offered to others.
Above all, Dan will be remembered as one of the most kind and selfless souls you could ever meet. His quiet strength, warm smile, and unwavering generosity made a lasting impact on all fortunate enough to know him. The love he shared with his family will be remembered always. His memory lives on in the love he gave, the memories he created, and the lives he touched.
Sharon, Dan and family, I was proud to be his Aunt. He indeed was one of a kind and selfless man. I am going to miss him and his late calls when he would call me sweetie.
I am so sorry we have lost him.
Love and hugs to
All of you, Weazie
I am so sorry for your loss. May God be with you. Much love and continued prayers to you all.
He was a special person that never said unkind word about anyone. He made me an Aunt for the first time. When him and his sisters were young me and my sister Weazie would take them to the park or other places. We worked for the city so we had the same days off. Those are some of my favorite memories. I’m proud to say he was my nephew. Fly high Danny.
Danny and Debbie were my first nephew and niece and my godchildren as well. Danny and I had a special bond like so many others. He was like that with everyone, he made you feel special. I too, had many late night talks with him, with even more in these last months of life. As a young child he had many overnight stays with me along with his sisters. We would play games, restaurant, dress up, and I would sing to them the old songs I have sung to my children and all my nieces and nephews when they were ready for sleep. I am glad he is now at peace because he truly deserves this after suffering so greatly. I love Danny so much and until we meet again this One tin soldier rides away…..
Danny was a very special person to me. He was not only my nephew, but my godson along with his sister Debbie who was my goddaughter. He was generous to a fault and kind to everyone he met. As a child he and his sisters had many overnight stays with me and my children. We would play games, do crafts, play restaurant, and do dress up. Later when it was time to go to bed, I would sing to them some old songs. Danny suffered greatly his last few weeks. I’m glad he’s now at peace. He so deserved it. I love you, Danny and until we meet again this one soldier rides away.
Your friend Michael and partner Michael for over 12 Years want to say goodbye, Rest In Peace.
Love Michael